and how many until you can french kiss ?
2006-07-26 13:56:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depending on your culture, a chaste peck on the cheek can even be done among 'just friends'.
But I would wait for any kind of 'romantic kissing' (i.e. on the lips). See, it's a step in the direction of a sexual relationship, which creates such a close bond that you really need to think about what you're doing before you do it, because there is in a very real way no turning back (i.e. it's humanly impossible) once you've done it.
Specifically, you need to find that one person with whom you really could have a permanent relationship, they meet your criteria for a good lifetime partner, etc., and agree to put each other first, take sole responsibility together for what happens in your life together (so, they're even higher-priority than Mom and Dad from now on, and you are not burdening Mom and Dad with ANY responsibility for your life), and make a permanent commitment.
I would really not like to see you have to find out the hard way down the road what happens if you don't do that. Third parties, breakups.... And after the fact, you know from experience that those things are not supposed to happen. And you figure out that the problem that led to it happening was that the relationship was based on greed instead of love.
Better to learn from other people's experience beforehand and spare yourself LOTS of trouble - take steps such as kissing in the direction of a sexual relationship only when you're really sure, i.e. engaged to be married. And at your age, I think the counting should probably be in years - not even months, much less days...
May God bless you
2006-07-26 14:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is your individual alternative, then why do you want different humans's evaluations on it? Make it, pass approximately your lifestyles, and do not say sorry or moment bet except your individual convictions difference. That mentioned, if what you are quite asking is recommendation, I'd let you know this can be a unhealthy thought. Withholding any style of bodily expression of love is prone to make you forget about a entire bunch of purple flags approximately how a wedding would play out in order that you'll be able to eventually have an outlet on your emotions, and it locations plenty of useless strain for the whole thing to be ideal the primary time (which it most of the time would possibly not be) so that they can purpose a wide variety of useless nervousness if it is not. And if a few thoughtless woman steals a kiss from you, it will be plenty more difficult to deal and get on together with your lifestyles if you are sporting round guilt you are not able to provide this "reward" on your long term spouse.
2016-08-28 17:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wait 2days before a first kiss and I wait 3 weeks to french.
2006-07-26 14:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days
2006-07-26 14:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by tweet_110793 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The desire to kiss a person doesnt really depend on time. It comes natural. Whether it happens on a first date or after going out for several months, time isnt what it depends on. It depends on your feelings. Lets say you're staring him in his eyes. Your faces come closer together in the dim moonlight. It doesnt matter how long the two of you have been together, its how you feel and it comes naturally. So do it when you're ready but make sure you are ready.
~Rickeisha
2006-07-26 14:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took my bf just 4 days to kiss me but about 2 weeks before we frenched
2006-07-26 13:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST KISS? i give it in the first night...
FRENCH KISS? i give after a week, but i consider first the first kiss...if the first kiss feels so good i give it a merit..but if the first kiss doesn't make any sense! no way for a french kiss!!!! maybe a FRENCH KICK rather...mwuah!
2006-07-26 14:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by cool but problematic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't wait, i'm usually kissing by the first day and in bed by the end of the week, =0
2006-07-26 13:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, it depends on how long i knew the person and who the person is. I'm not one to kiss on the first date, but if i am really good friends with the guy i'm with, i would mind. french, regular, it's all the same to me..it's who the guy i'm with and if i'm comfortable with him enough to kiss him.
2006-07-26 13:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by stupid nickname. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anywhere from 1 day, to 1 month, to 1 year! It's not about timing it's about that "feeling" you'll just know...
2006-07-26 14:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by JustJess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋