This guy I've know for about 6 months who's flirted with me before. Lately he's been making more eye contact when he looks at me and then he'll look down at my lips. The other day when I was talking to him and I smiled big he looked at my mouth. Do you think he may just like my smile. And if he's doing this does he just want to have sex with me? Or could this be a sign he may really like me? Please give honest opinions, thanks
2006-07-26 13:55:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a hunch that he's been reading books about interpreting body language, or I could be way off, but whatever. I'll tell you what it means because I'm a Jedi Consular and I know everything about anything. I have a knack for reading people's minds as well, even when I don't know a whole lot about them. So here's what's going on:
1. Yes, he absolutely does like you, and from the sound of it, a lot.
2. Yes, he's also sexually attracted to you, however, I've a very good feeling that he's mature enough and won't make any sexual advances on you after having a mature conversation about it. After all, he hasn't done anything sexual around you yet has he? Didn't think so. (This is assuming that you or he grows a backbone and tells the other how you feel about them. Yes, we all know you like him too.)
3. The increased eye contact means he has become increasingly more interested in you over time. (Perhaps you're in that stage of adolescence where the boys are starting to take notice of your "features.") He's paying close attention to your actions for a reason. I believe without a doubt that he's infatuated with you.
4. You can't blame a guy for admiring your body. We're humans. We're built to be attracted to these things. Get over it if you have a problem with.
5. Guys don't just "like" you as a friend when they pay that much attention to you. Don't believe me? Ask him.
Having said all that and ruining all the magic for you, the bottom line is: Just tell him you like him and get it over with kid. Yeesh, you women (and girls too) spend so much time analyzing everything. It's a wonder you ever have time to actually have a relationship.
2006-07-26 13:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i would say that he would like to taste those lips(i'm not saying this in a bad way).I would say he's on to you and probably looking into you in a 'loving way',he may want to go out with you,if you like him,tell him how you feel,then that's when he'll show his true feelings....oh,one more thing,don't let this guy have everything up-front, you know what i mean....make him work for it,just don't make a wrong decision please......hope i helped=).......
2006-07-26 14:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Luis L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be imagining himself kissing you. If he looked at your crotch, I would say he just wanted to have sex. Because he is looking at your lips, I'd say he wants to get to know you better because he likes you.
2006-07-26 13:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like the guy who takes his time with a lady if you've not had sex yet - i'm not saying you should start, no!
I'm sure he likes you a lot, and sex is not the only thing in his mind about you. He seems like me in his nature; in that case let me take liberties to tell you what i'ld be thinking:
- this girl is beautiful/tantilising/hot {sizzle, sizzle, sizzle}
- by looking into your eyes i'ld be asking myself: "is this lady worth the effort at wooing her?" "is she honest/faithful?" "am i her only love?" "can i trust her?"
- by looking at your lips i'ld be thinking: "what luscious lips she has" "i wish i could kiss them" "am i the only one sharing her lips now?" "is she more or less respectful/saucy/talkative than she usually appears?" "is she hiding anything from me?"
those would be my thoughts about you if i were in his situation. remember no two people are exactly the same, so dont limit yourself to any one idea (he's unique)
all the best :)
2006-07-26 14:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it means he likes ur smile and he really likes you and wen he looks at ur lips it means he wants to kiss you but the reason he hasnt yet is because he is scared of ur reaction to it
2006-07-26 14:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to kiss you at that moment he looks at ur lips
2006-07-26 13:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by poboyman27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't already, he's probably wondering what your lips feel like wrapped around his dick. Sorry to be so blunt.
2006-07-26 13:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by krispykreme335 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
has he kissed u yet? he may b sizin up ur lips so he can see how he'll kiss u at first, if he likes u, try talkin to him and gettin to kno him.
2006-07-26 13:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Disney♥♥Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL, he wants to have sex with you that's all just don't fall for his games, just ignore it like i do!
2006-07-26 14:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Beautiful Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starting to make you a serious target.
2006-07-26 13:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋