yesterday me and my bf had a little fight because he thinks i do not trust him because I asked him if he was ok since he was acting different. so i tried to talk to him today and asked him if he wanted to fix it. he said "mmmm not yet. for now im chilling and the thinking aint going good trust me so let me chill". do you think that i should just let him have his space or talk to him (i think hes overreacting on this and thinking a little bit too much)? pleave help!
2006-07-26 13:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just give him some space for a day or two then call him up and talk with him thats the best thing to do and show him that you DO trust him to win him back
2006-07-26 13:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communication is a pinnacle part of any relationship.
Knowing how and when to communicate is very important.
Usually, if someone says they need a little space until they are ready to talk, forcing the issue is not a good idea. You can simply say that you understand, and are available to 'listen' when he needs to. Same thing you would want if the situation were reversed.
I can think of two good reasons why someone may not be ready to talk right away. Either because they are afraid that they will say something they will regret out of anger or resentment, or because they are afraid of the reaction from the other person.
If the first, and you push the person to talk, you are partially to blame for the outcome.
If it is the latter, you can build trust in the relationship by not overreacting yourself.
There are a lot of things to know about communication. It's not just saying things back and forth to each other.
2006-07-26 13:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Gonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing makes a guy straighten up faster than when the girl decides to break up. Suggest that you think the two of you shouldn't be together anymore. If he gets emotional and considerate of your feelings, then keep him. However, if he acts like an ****** and wants to argue about it, just go through with it.
You're time is too valuable to waste on someone with such insecurity issues like that. I know for a fact that you can meet way better guys just about anywhere. The only thing holding you back is a little push I think.
So here's the bottom line. If you're unhappy in the relationship, drop the guy and move on. You'll get over it.
2006-07-26 13:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he is over reacting a little give him some space in that subject but u should still not give him to much space cause then u might have a chance of losing him
2006-07-26 13:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by steven b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone give him some space if u do its goin to be so much easier to talk to him wen he calms down and if u dont u have a possibility that he will dump u so just leave him alone for now and let him talk to u wen he wants to talk to u
2006-07-26 13:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes give him space but again you may want 2 keep a good eye on him and the gurls he hangs out with if you know what i mean.
2006-07-26 13:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds to me like the typical reaction that guys give when they're guilty of something. He's trying to throw you off - as though he's hurt.
2006-07-26 13:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space. I ruined a relationship by not giving him the space he wanted.
2006-07-26 13:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by in need of advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space. he will eventually crack and talk to you. men like to see whose gonna call first. let him cool off, let him call you.
2006-07-26 13:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone..................
2006-07-26 13:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by Troy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋