yesterday me and my bf had a little fight because he thinks i do not trust him. so i tried to talk to him today and asked him if he wanted to fix it. he said "mmmm not yet. for now im chilling and the thinking aint going good trust me so let me chill". do you think that i should just let him have his space or talk to him (i think hes overreacting on this and thinking a little bit too much)? pleave help!
2006-07-26 13:03:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women like to talk. men don't. Give the guy some space. Pushing him will only push him further away. And when you do talk, for gawd sakes don't talk it to death.
2006-07-26 13:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forcing him to talk won't be good either. he might just get more stand off-ish... try leaving it up to him. tell him that you want to fix it ( that is if you do) and that your willing to talk when he wants to. this lets him know you trust him enough to come to you. but if he makes you sit and wait while hes "chilling" and your stuck at home miserable, take another look at why your with him.
2006-07-26 20:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by emcjensen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and give him space, that way he'll know that you trust and let him know when he is ready to talk to call. Sometimes its them who has the issue not you. Best of luck.
2006-07-26 20:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by jma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definatly think he isn't mature enough to have a girlfriend. And I think you deserve better than to grovel for his attention.
If you like a life of drama, lack of trust, fits, immature behavoir....then go for it gf You will be unhappy ever after
2006-07-26 20:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is over reacting. It takes time to trust the other person. I think you should talk to him about his feelings and ask him whether or not he trusts you.
2006-07-26 20:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space. You may think he is overreacting but maybe he does not. You cannot control his thoughts. If he decides to give you your walking papers, so be it and move forward.
2006-07-26 20:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh men and their "clamming up" routine! I hate it. But probably best to just give him his space, and then when he tries to find you, be out of the house...lol.
Then call him back shortly thereafter.
2006-07-26 20:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say talk to him. You will feel better after you get it off of your chest. God Luck and God Bless .
2006-07-26 20:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by lovemeacb4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space but be on the alert.......signs may be in the air
2006-07-26 20:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋