My friend Mand has just been dumped by her bf by text. I said it doesn't count and she should just go over there and make him tell her to her face but she feels its no use now. Anybody with experience?
2006-07-26 13:03:10 · 11 answers · asked by poppy vox 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. She should just take it as is. He dumped her
2. He's a coward because he had to use a phone... no worse... text. So she should have dumped him anyway
3. Sounds like he's with another girl anyway so she shouldn't really care that he dumped her
2006-07-26 13:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by benh316 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
is it bad to say that i remember when breaking up on the phone was considered harsh?! there's not a lot she can do now but if she does want to know more then maybe they should agree to meet and talk, it will be worth it, if nothing else so they can stand to be in sight of each other! but you have to remember that no one can force anyone to stay with someone when it isn't working out, good luck
2006-07-26 20:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's right, why put yourself through that embarrasment. He was too chicken to tell her to her face, but that's some people for you. What good would it do, to force him to tell her face to face. What's done is done, it's now in the past. She's right, to forget about it, and move on with her life. She's much better off now, anyway.
2006-07-26 20:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girl called a friend of mine telling him to tell me to go to msn. i asked why, and he said she said its very important.
all i can say was that, if its so important then it must wait till she sees me and say what she wants to say.
i don't even by a second bilieve its right, cause they didn't date over by txting each other. he is not man enough to face his own girl? what kind of man is he? i would understand if it your friend who did that although she's not an exception aswell, but etleast its a woman not a man.
tell your girlfriend not to even bother go asking for reasons for the fallout, she must go and embarras him in front of his friends that he ended a relationship with a text. he is shaming us as men.
2006-07-26 20:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by tender-boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's spared her the embarrassment and been a total coward but better to find out. she should walk away with dignity. plan some girly treats together..beauty day, shopping, go the gym..do things to boost her confidence and let her talk about it all to get over it.
2006-07-27 06:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if it doesn't count are they expected to just keep going? Sadly it does and it just means he's a bampot who has very poor standards. She is well shot of him and she should be dignified and move onwards and upwards.
2006-07-26 20:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by Thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? I would get the girl to talk with her guy to fully straighten everything out, but seriously, obviously he's not that great of a guy if he can't break up with a girl in person!
2006-07-26 20:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it counts. and if i were her I wouldn't even waste my time going over there. he's not worth it, especially if he doesn't have the decency to break up with her in person. also, don't let her even think about going back to him if he all of a sudden "changes" his mind.
2006-07-26 20:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how cowardly lame is THAT!
...i guess that's the modern "dear john" letter, yes?...
hmmmmmm... just lend her a shoulder to cry one. be her friend. she doesn't need a 1x1 confrontation. it's will just be another chance for her to get humiliated all over again.
2006-07-26 20:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Cassor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why make her go through it twice? yes, he should have done it face to face but he's obviously not man enough. just do what you can for your mate and forget him xx
2006-07-26 20:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by purpletrace999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋