Can it be done and what are the chances of a relapse?
And when is the riskiest time for relapse?
2006-07-26 12:58:00 · 28 answers · asked by karlos 2 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
depends on if you're an alcoholic or not.
2006-07-26 13:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not be easy. The man thing is being ready to stop abusing. First there might be something underlying that makes a person want to drink. I think a good support system is necessary and a complete lifestyle change is necessary. If abuse is a routine, over time, it has become a comfort zone. Breaking out of that zone is going to be seriously challenging, particularly relapse happens. The person needs to find a new zone that is as comfortable or more comfortable without the use of alcohol. Any situation that brings anxiety can trigger a craving. The person needs to recognize these things and have supports in place to hold them up when they are about to fall. Quitting is not an event, it is a process and it requires a serious life changing commitment.
2006-07-26 13:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me commend you sir on your decision to stop drinking. After 20 hard years, it will not be easy.
You must first get checked out by a doctor, to determine how much damage has been done to your body.
You may need to be hospitalized, to " Clean you out ."
It is recommended that you attend AA meetings as often as possible
A change in your lifestyle is definite......OH BOY are you going to have to change
You will need complete positive input, from your family members,
and any friends ( I mean REAL friends, and not your old drinking buddies. ) that you may have. Also, if you've never been a spiritual person, now may be a good time to start.
It's going to be tough. But it can be done, and it will be done. But ONLY IF you want it to be done.
As for relapses....Well, it all depends on how positive you are. If you keep active, and always have things to keep you from even thinking about a relapse, things should turn out OK. But as we all know, there are times when a wrench always gets thrown in to the gears. This is where the people around you, will play a big part in how your outcome will be. It's also a good time to make peace, and to patch things up with anyone that you've screwed-up with over the years, because these people could be the ones that help you the most.
G O O D . L U C K
Take care of yourself. and be good.
And REMEMBER always take life ONE DAY AT A TIME.
You can contact me, if there's anything you want to get off your chest.
Hang In There>>>>>>>>>>>>
2006-07-26 14:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by KingCucamonga 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it can be done. If you are sick and disgusted of it, just stop today. Chances of relapse depend on the person. I would think hanging out in bars or with friends who are drinkers will make it tough for a while. Stay away from that scene for a while. Don't use it as a crutch. I do that with cigarettes, say Oh, I had a bad day . It just makes you feel worse.
2006-07-26 13:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's you in question( i think not)
Q1... not easy, the body gets used to having alcohol on board, when the alcohol is not present it causes all sorts of symptoms and side effects making the host feel quite unwell alcohol will bring that person back to(his) normal.
Q2...Relapse high chance of that.
Q3... Depression can set in, that's when you can relapse.
Everyone is different my answer to rehabilitation is the SLOW Weening off process very gradual decrease in consumption.
I have been through the works on this subject, not A1 now, but more in control?
2006-07-26 17:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to consult a doctor. "Cold Turkey" off of alcohol may have very serious, life threatening side effects. That's why you need to consult a doctor, they can advise and even prescribe medications to ease or prevent the symptons that can go with total withdrawal. Join Alcoholics Anonymous.
If you are seriously considering giving up alcohol you have my support. I had three uncles and two aunts who were acute alcoholics; it killed all four of them. So I know the heartbreak it can cause. But hang in there, it can be done.
2006-07-26 13:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Albannach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were into serious alcohol abuse you would not be asking this silly question - the wooden curtains would have been drawn around - and you would have absolutely no chance of relapsing!
2006-07-27 02:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the drinker. after a night in the local head off to a party with a bottle of southern comfort and finish off the bottle before i head home. no sharing allowed.. got married and used to drop in to the pub for one drink until the pub was closed and there was no more drink..used mortgage money to fund these outings which turned into nightly sessions.
nearly lost everything, wife,kids and house. Reality check. gave up the drink 16 years later still with a fantastic wife, 2 great kids and own house. don't drink in Ireland but when i go on holidays i let my hair down 3 times a year. how hard was it . just a matter of getting your priorities right. and I'm the one who gained the most.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-27 14:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by michaelnangle2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is different for every individual, depending how long and heavily you have been drinking it may not be wise to stop without a proper detox. withdrawals may be horrendous and even dangerous, but you can do it ! millions have ! and you can regain control of your life. alcoholics anonymous is a great help but only when you are ready for it. stopping drinking has to be for yourself and not for other people, if you don't want to stop for yourself it won't work ! but good luck and try to change your lifestyle and habits. relapse is very common but keep trying and is most likely to happen if you dont change your lifestyle. try to discover your trigger points and strategies to avoid them and also don't beat yourself up if you relapse. YOU HAVE NEVER FAILED UNTIL YOU STOP TRYING.
2006-07-27 07:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by john b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend did it 26 years ago and has never had a relapse. It's a matter of will power.
2006-07-26 13:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Casper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to attend a local AA meeting. I am sure they will welcome you with open arms. You can gain strength from people who have gone through the same addiction. Some times you might need medical attention, it depends on how much alcohol your body is used to. You have already taken the first step and realize that you have a problem. Good luck!!!!
2006-07-26 13:29:44 · answer #11 · answered by Gail S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋