im curious cause the assholes get all the girls yet women say i want a nice guy
2006-07-26 12:55:44 · 41 answers · asked by lztexan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well some women just fall for assholes they like the bad in them at first, until they see the real them. Myself I fell for the b.s until I finely grew up, and now I've been with the same nice man for 15 years,and I met him by dating an asshole,"it was his friend". So if you are a nice man don't give up!!
2006-07-26 13:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by mslooking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as much as i want a nice guy I also want a bad guy. I like a mix of a bad guy and a nice guy. however "nice guys finish last" I really wish that phrase wasnt true becuase there arent enough nice guys out there and if there are the assholes always get in there way!
2006-07-26 13:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by side_ways_sittin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We say that and some of us really mean it. However, we're just so use to certain men that it becomes hard to switch. Sometimes, the pain is just there and we dont' want to hurt a guy that's sweet/considerate to them.
We don't intend to intentionally, but we really want someone to treat us right. I've been there, and I know. I've let some good guys go and not realize it til later on. But the key, is to keep on though. So to you, no we don't want assholes; some of us do grow up and realize it. Others just don't want to let go.
2006-07-26 14:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by lilred24sta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I struggled with this problem for years, but I've finally figured it out (with some help) and landed myself a great woman.
Many guys (including myself, for a long time) assume that women choose who to be attracted to. That's completely untrue, and rather absurd if you think about it. We don't consciously choose what girls we think are hot or who turn us on, do we? Well, women don't either.
Ladies, please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, but I think most women want the stability of a good guy, combined with the raw passion and magnetism of an asshole. It's the asshole's complete self-confidence and don't-give-a-$hit attitude that triggers a woman's feeling of attraction, but if she gets together with him, he treats her like crap until she eventually gets sick of it. On the other hand, nice guys never trigger that feeling of attraction, so they end up being "just friends", and it's frustrating as hell.
The good news is that there are ways to combine the things that women are attracted to and want to be around. Check out my sources (and sign up for their free newsletters) to get more info on how.
2006-07-26 13:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno i want a nice guy ,who wants a mean one i kno i dont. i am very happy with the guy that im with. Its not just about nice thats not all that a girl wants though we want a guy that will listen to us and some one that is there for you and someone that knows how to treat you right any one can be nice. but yah i can say that i really want a nice guy and im not just sayen that because i havent been dumped.
2006-07-26 13:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by kaila g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive never been dumped and i can honestly say...I really do want a nice guy...bad boys are fine and fun but their not the real thing..so many guys try and get attention and if works they get what they want but its never true love or anything..in answer to your question yes i really do want a nice guy more than anything :-) so as a message to you guys out there you don't have to be a bad boy to get a girl
2006-07-26 13:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true about the "nice guy" bullclinton. Girls like "bad boys," the kind with long arrest records with a few felonies thrown in to make it exciting. They like guys who are about 96% covered with tattoos; it makes him "so exciting." They like guys who spend all their money on their Harley or their souped-up Japanese sportscar. They like to be seen in these cars and on the back seat of these bikes. Girls are very conscious of what a guy has and want to be seen with the guy with the flashiest toys. They crave the glitz, the flash and the glam of the spotlight and the adoring applause of the crowd in a vicarious way. Girls are really pretty shallow and you'd be well advised to just use them for your selfish pleasure, then bounce them from your crib like a basketball when you've finished with them. Do not allow one to capture your heart. It's Pain City sooner or later, I'm tellin' you now.
2006-07-26 13:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After having a relationship with a total prick!!!!! I'd much rather have a nice guy. I'd kill for a nice guy. I want a nice guy, I want a nice guy, I want a nice guy!! The assholes whine, and complain too much! I'm suppose to be the one whining and complaing! Gosh!!!1!!1one!
2006-07-26 13:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ LysoL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls really want it both ways. They want a big strong guy, and often assholes are indicative of big and strong. We want someone that will fight off the assholes bugging us and defend our honor. The knight in shining armor stereotype. But we also one the guy that will be warm and cuddly when we're all alone, someone to understand us and to share ourselves with.
2006-07-26 13:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by kitti_bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want a good guy...assholes usually get the girl becuz they pretend to be nice doing all these out of the way things and then once they think we're hooked...they show their a$$
2006-07-26 12:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋