yesterday me and my bf had a little fight because he thinks i do not trust him. so i tried to talk to him today and asked him if he wanted to fix it. he said "mmmm not yet". do you think that i should just let him have his space or talk to him (i think hes overreacting on this and thinking a little bit too much)? pleave help!
2006-07-26 12:52:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shag him
problem solved
2006-07-26 12:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by tmdkshaft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf is like this sometimes too. It's incredibly frustrating 'cause I always want to talk things out. There have been times though where he just isn't ready to talk things out or isn't ready to stop being mad yet. I've found the best thing to do is just let him know that you want to talk about it and that you think he might be over thinking it all a bit too much (really gently say that!!), but that you respect him enough to wait until he's ready to talk too.
2006-07-26 19:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different. Some people need to think and sort out their feelings of what happened before they talk. Give him the space he asked for, and talk rationally when he's ready.
2006-07-26 19:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him cool off and calm down when he is ready to talk about it he will let you know. My b/f and i are the same way but our fights don't really last that long due to knowing that we are still inlove and that we always will love each other.. well Just give him time he will come around.
2006-07-26 19:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a bit of space to think about it. if u keep calling and asking about it, his mind will only overreact more and he will get angrier. trust me it happens with me. give him his space and he will call u when he's thought it out if not give him a couple of days and then u call him
2006-07-26 19:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little of both. Depending on circumstances, talking is always better.
2006-07-26 19:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a few days to work **** out in his head. Then ask him to talk, if things haven't already blown over.
2006-07-26 19:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a guy its always best to give him space. they take longer to think things over and come to a decision
2006-07-26 19:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him to give you space. you shouldn't be under this stress. sounds like he doesn't trust you. most guys don't realize how good they have it until its gone. so tell him you'll call him when YOU are ready.
2006-07-26 19:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give space n act like u dont give a **** n he'll be runnin back to u
2006-07-26 19:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by tralilone_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be indiferent and he will not act like that anymore.
2006-07-26 19:59:25 · answer #11 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋