i was w/ this guy josh 4 about 3 months & i thought everything was good, but i guess not. heres wat happened: i was on the phone late at night w/ my friend & shes like i jus talked to joshs friend& he told me josh had sex w/ anna ( the girl who i compeltly hate)well joshs parents were away for the week & me & ash went over & were going to hang out 4 awhile ( this was b4 i found out) and i did things w/ him & i am not someone who is easy to do anything w/ i mean i didnt do much but still.then i found out later that him and this girl had sex 2 nights b4 we did anything. i mean i felt so used and gross and i didnt no wat to do, but i did brake up w/ him. & anna & i r completly diff she smoke/ does drugs & looks like a guy & im a girly girl who dresses up & is smart! like all his friends dont no y he chose her ov me. anna & him r still 2gether & it makes me feel aweful ev time i c them plus i have alot of guys who want to hang out w/ me who r his friends. wat do i do ?
2006-07-26 12:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date another guy, you'll be surprised how quickly you get over Josh.
2006-07-26 12:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by rainfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen its happened to me plenty of times before you must remember that men are all pigs secondly you cant help get horney and honey dont be ashamed of your self jsut turn round and say to him that he thinks he was using you....ha no! you were using him and tell him to go and get fuked by some other sketty tramp o.k and you dont need to change for no 1 be yourself all the time and this anna girl sounds like a right dude! go out grab your self a real hotty walk past this guy and say " you see this bloke here yea, well he knows how to satisfy me maybe you should take a leaf out of his book" give him a smile and walk off
2006-07-26 19:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact number one. you're still young. you have a lot a head of you. fact number two. you're smart. so you should actually know the answer to your own question.
so i guess we all figured out that this Josh is just using you. If you're as smart as you say you are, you'd not think twice about leaving him. everybody makes mistake, so get over it and MOVE ON.
good luck.
PS: seriously, i've been there before. the first few days felt like hell, and then it's over. buy a console game and play your heart out. i did that and that helps. you might have something that you prefer though.
2006-07-26 19:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by phaditama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry about what happened.I know of one thing that may help.
"No guy is worth your tears, and the ONE who is, won't make you cry."I am sure you had a lot of strong feelings for Josh, but what he did is so bad, I myself get disgusted when I think about it, and i have never even met him!I honestly think that you need to move on from him.Don't confront him or Anna.What they did is done, and NOTHING can change that, but if he would do something like that to you, he isn't good enough for you anyway.All I really need to say is move on.I'm not neccesarily saying forget about him, because I know that would be hard to do, but don't stress over it or worry about it.If we were meant to be with one special person, that person wouldn't do anything to hurt or harm us, and looking at what Josh did, apparently Josh isn't that one person.Good luck.
2006-07-26 19:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dylan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to do what you have been doing. You are obviously a smart girl. You did the best thing by dumping him. Just continue with your life and try your best to ignore them. Do not try to get back together with him he is an as*s!
2006-07-26 19:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He screw this chick cause she is easy and he is trying to do the same with you, if you don't let him go he will try to have sex with you , dump the dude he is stupid for cheating on you and letting know more people until you find out.
2006-07-26 19:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he likes trashy girls and if i was u i would take the trash your bf and throw him to the curb and find someone who wants u as the person u r ,a princess. And u will find someone else and u will forget all about him.
2006-07-26 19:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by jdhmusic3029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with one of his friends there alot of man out there dont focused on him get over him and about that gurl
2006-07-26 20:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by lilangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋