I am bi sexual and my man knows that. We have talk and would like to find a woman to share the experience with us. I went out Friday night with a lady friend of mine. Really did not expect things to happen but they did. I tried to call my man who was busy at the time. I wanted him there. Now he is made at me cause i did this without him. But 2 night prior to this he told me to bew more bi sexual. Maybe I am just confused...
2006-07-26 12:32:36 · 21 answers · asked by Daddys Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been together over 6 years..and i love him and want to be with him. nd i want to share this with him
2006-07-26 12:44:05 · update #1
i would love to see him with another woman.I have no problem sharing him with me there...cause i love women too.
2006-07-26 12:45:02 · update #2
yes he should ive never been in a relationship likee this but it seems that there shud be a great level of understanding to it.i mean how you gonna be so open for new things but set limits and boundaries,its kinda tuff to have it both ways i think.if thats the way u guys roll then there shud be an expectancy of a little crossing of the lines.im not saying its kool to expect your partner to do sumthing yr uncomfortable with but you shud go into it considering the possibility.thats just my opinion
2006-07-26 12:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi-sexual means that you like to have sex with members of
either sex.
It does NOT mean that you like to have members of either
sex at the same time.
If he was looking for a menagatrois (that CANNOT be how
it is spelled!), he should have said so.
However, even if he had said so, I don't think its a good idea
to just "jump into it." That is, you should have some experience
with your own gender before you start trying to handle both at
the same time.
Arguably, he should have experience with the lady friend you
found as well.
There are at least 5 new aspects to one or more of you:
1: You (same sex)
2: You (different partner)
3: You (multiple partners)
4: Him (different partner)
5: Him (multiple partners)
6: Her (COMPLETELY UNKNOWN)
The statistics on relationships with more than one partner
are pretty dismal, but I don't think there really is any
scientific information on one-night-stands.
Be careful - and make him realize that he is no longer
"the boss". There are many people's feelings to get hurt.
2006-07-26 19:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a self-confessed bi-sexual,then yes you are confused.i mean really what the heck are you thinking,("i know ,if i swing both ways i never have to go home alone")it is always easier for a woman to be bi-sexual than a guy.cause if a guy wants another guy he is gay .period.if a girl is bi then she must not be getting what she wants from a guy.unless she is a nympho then she is just every guys dream,especially if she wants to bring in another woman into the relationship.don't let your man down, try again ,he will really enjoy it.
2006-07-26 19:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are confused....Your so call man is just upset because he could not be with two ladies at the same time doing the wild thing....Trust me on this fact he will get over it because he wants to make love to two ladies at the same time while you do your Bi thing to her he will be trying to do you both!!!!And you can take that to the bank!!!!!
2006-07-26 19:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by newyorkcitypimp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't have done that without him if it was something the two of you discussed and you knew he'd want to be present for. It was kinda selfish of you.
I'd say maybe he should give you one more chance, but only if you know you wouldn't do it again and only if he feels up to it.
2006-07-26 19:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by carmilysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to focus on other things. Life is complicated enough without adding another body to your bed of love. What are you guys thinking????
2006-07-26 19:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sushiboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if he was busy oh well he missed out on that opportunity...so why should he be mad at you for doing you...he knows that you're bi so you'll do what you want if you see an attractive girl...so tell him to get over it...there will be plenty of opps for yall to experience a three-some...trust me...
2006-07-26 19:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the word is confused. I think the word is stupid. You cheated on him. Doesn't matter whether it was a guy or a girl. Stop being a slutt and deal with the fact that he's mad. For your sake, just hope he doesn't break up with you. For his sake, hope that he does.
2006-07-26 19:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, this is what I'm thinking. Is it posible he dislikes your lady friend or thinks she is unattractive as opposed to the ones he found? That might be the cause.
2006-07-26 19:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sonico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too confused right now. Pull your head out of your *** and decide if you want to have a serious relationship or not. He has the right to be mad at you.
2006-07-26 19:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋