My Boyfriend is always telling me he loves♥ me and is always hugging on me and stuff like that but i'm not really sure if he really loves me or is just trying to get into my pants!! how can you tell?
2006-07-26 12:30:36 · 26 answers · asked by lil kisses 15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been with him for over 3 months
2006-07-26 12:54:22 · update #1
Just be sure it is both before you commit, You just know it is right.
2006-07-26 12:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by lovelostboys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing unfeminine about waiting for the right person, and saying no to others until you find him.
This man is making you feel insecure or you wouldn't be asking this question, right?
So, he isn't really the guy who makes you feel confident in yourself, and if he isn't ,then he is the wrong person to allow access to your body.
at the expense of being rude, all men want to kiss women. do you want all men to kiss you? (that's a lot of bacteria!) or are you willing to be subjective, and find the right person for your life???
do you want someone to really love, and love you, but then he doesn't like you because other men have been there first?
You'll be heart broken, and depressed if he doesn't love you enough to understand your past. that's the way men are and when women accept it they will be happier, and more confident in making good relationship choices.
go find a hobby until you find the right person. better to spend time with your family then to ruin an entire future. you've got a long way to go in life. don't make it harder.
2006-07-26 12:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by ohboyiamontheinternet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked about sex with him? Let him know that you would have to be 100% in love with a guy before you have sex with him. (Even if this isn't the truth LoL) See what his reaction is. If he does try to come on to you, just tell him you aren't ready, if he throws a big hissy fit, then you will know that he only wanted to get in your pants. Hope it all works out! =]
2006-07-26 12:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ LysoL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before he samples the goodies make him do the following,if he dont hes just trying to score the booty...make him meet the parents and any big older brother or friend you might have hanging around.a man out for a-s wont put himself through that if hes not real,make him committ..meet his family and friends and get a ring.that way if hes playing you he will look like a jerk in front of everyone.tell him he has some tests he has to complete before he tags ya.if he real he will do it,and he will appreciate that he is with a lady and not some loose a-s chicken head...good luck.... and remember your body is the most sacred thing you can share with anyone,make sure he deserves it.
2006-07-26 12:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not understand, he may love you, he may no longer, yet undergo in options that love is affected man or woman and form. So if he LOVES you he wont rigidity you into sex too early, and he will look ahead to you and pursue you want a gents. make certain he's a Christian too beforehand you get extreme,you don't want a non-christian guy, contained in the top it is going to likely be a source of assorted discomfort!
2016-10-15 06:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning it, then it doesn't matter if he loves you or not, you obviously aren't ready to have that kind of relationship with him. And besides, if you have to ask us, you probably don't think he loves you anyway and are only using this to confirm your suspiscions. The real question is "do you love him"? If not, why are you wasting our time with this question? If you do, then why are you wasting our time with this question? We don't know your boyfriend, you do. Only you can tell if his intentions are true, or simply for a piece of azz.
Good luck.
2006-07-26 12:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lanie Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl hes just showing some affection if he wanted 2 get n ur pants he would do more then just hugging ya
2006-07-26 12:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by naashomwheeler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that the reason he is saying and doing things is to get in your pants, then you know your answer already.
2006-07-26 12:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mere fact that you ask this question certainly answers your own question dosen't it ? All men want in your pants. The questionis are they worthy to do so?
2006-07-26 12:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only sure way to tell is to let him get into your pants and then see how he acts afterwards...but i know you prolly dont wanna do that...so what you're gon have to do is just see how he acts...he may say that he loves you but his actions should show that too...
2006-07-26 12:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds nice to me but yourll never know ever. so id take your chances or leave. Only you can decide if hes worth it. its the same you know when you reach 40yrs you never are 100%that they like you but you do become a better judge slightly over the years (only slightly!)
2006-07-26 12:42:46 · answer #11 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋