And what is the best way for me to become a weak, unfaithful, abusive bad boy? That way, women will think I'm exciting and a challenge.
2006-07-26 12:21:48 · 27 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In most cases the confident good guy's scare them, because they feel that they have nothing to offer to the relationship. Girls flock to the loosers because they can compete and they feel good about trying to save them. Confident girls with a good head on their shoulders won't be afraid of you. Your problem is your looking too low in the gene pool. Shoot for a girl with a little class.
2006-07-26 12:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Barry M 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's not about becoming weak and unfaithful. Confidence is a good thing, but it takes more than that. Mix a healthy dose of self-confidence (though it has to be REAL confidence - most women can tell instantly if you're putting on an act) with a sharp wit, and you'll go far. Also, check out this guy's web site. Sign up for his free newsletter for plenty of other great ideas.
2006-07-26 12:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women (my age anyway, 35) do like confident men and have outgrown the bad boy thing. But there is a difference between confident and arrogant. Which one are you? Confidence is good, arrogance in my opinion is just a way of hiding insecurity.
2006-07-26 12:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the past, I personally didn't like the sweet guy type. I was in a relationship with the horrible, bad boy, PRICK, not too long ago, and I really missed having my sweet guy around. Now days, I would kill to have a perfectly, confident, sweet, honest good guy.
The sweet guy just can't seem to put his foot down.
What's a relationship without some type of arguement?
The bad guy.. there's always something going on with him that we just can't stand. Personally, I find the bad guy extremely unattractive.
2006-07-26 12:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ LysoL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not sure about other women, but I much prefer my confident good guy that I'm currently with than the bad boy I divorced.
2006-07-26 12:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just hanging out with the wrong women. Is it that you are attracted to the 'bad girl' type that enjoys lots of drama. Someday, all of those bad girls will want a healthy, confident, well-adjusted man like you. In the meantime, try checking into the more quiet, sensitive girls.
2016-03-16 06:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change who you are because you want women to like you. Thats not how it goes. Otherwise you arent being true to yourself. Dont change yourself for anyone. Be who you are. One day, you will find that one who thinks you are a challenge, handsome, and likes you because you are a all out nice guy.[idk that for sure. but it helps right.]
& as for women lik'n the "bad boys" is because they are usually the better look'n ones. But women hate the fact that they are assholes. & would rather meet a cute, nice, faithful guy.
& do not become an abusive jerk. Abusing women is not the way to go. You would just get yourself in much more danger.
2006-07-26 12:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn =) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I'm a confident "good boy" but not exactly Carlton from Fresh Prince. But I'm not exactly Snoop Dogg either ...
2006-07-26 12:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like confident men girls that don't just want to take over the relationship as for me i take control no matter who you are
2006-07-26 12:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whoa, whoa... just cuz u've been hurt, dont go blaming that on all girlkind. It's a challenge that draws women in. if ur already perfect, then theres nothing for them to try to change. but if ur a bad boy, they try to help u out and make u a better man.
2006-07-26 12:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋