alright, so my gf broke up with me about two months ago. so it was over and we hadn't talked for a while. well, about 2 weeks ago, i decieded that i wanted to get back with my gf that was before her. cuz the only reason we broke up was cuz her parents threw a **** fit about her dating while her dad was having heart problems and all that. so that's why it was called off. but i want to get back together with her now. well, a couple days ago, my ex started talking to me again, and i think that shes planning on wanting to get back together with me, and i dont think i want to do it. i just feel like crap that i left her behind so soon after she broke up with me. so give me so input on what u think i should do.
2006-07-26 12:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by pjk837 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't feel obligated to her anymore. I know you still have feelings for both so you are going to have to chose one ans stick to her...if one of them wants to come back to you then you should be honest with her. It might hurt her but at least you told her the truth! good luck
2006-07-26 12:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 20⤊ 3⤋
So you do or do not want to get back together with your girlfriend? If you do or think you might want to, then don't play games. It will only make things more complicated. Let her know that you are sorry for leaving her behind so soon after she broke up with you. Then see if she shows any signs of being interested in getting back together. If she is then decide for sure; and make a move. The best thing is to make a final decision either way. My oppinion; is always give love at least a second chance. Good luck.
2006-07-26 19:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by rochester33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad for following ur feelings; she was following hers when she broke up w/ you. and there's a reason for ur break up. like u said, the first girl was broken up because of her parents, and not cuz of something that happened between u! u want to get back w/ for some reason, so it's worth it to try it again. if u fight ur feelings and get back w/ the 2nd girl "just cuz" u feel guilty, that is being unfair to all parties. even if u have to be single for awhile, don't ever be w/ someone just because.. u end up resenting them, and u hurt the other person. just not something u want to go thru.
2006-07-26 19:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give yourself some time to think before you jump into another relationship... You need to find out if the one you were with before is even interested in you.. and the one thats talking to you again... well... i dont know the circumstances..but it sounds like the first one is the best bet!
2006-07-26 19:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Be mature. Be truthful. Tell them why and explain why you felt the way you did.
That will go a long way in resolving any hurt that you might have caused.
2006-07-26 19:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy. If you always worried about other people's feelings you'd be miserable. I'm not saying to become a total jerk, but move on.
2006-07-26 19:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decide to do, you have to be true to yourself. Don't play games with either girl and be completely honest. Most girls/women can handle to truth and respect it, as long as it is genuine. Good Luck!
2006-07-26 19:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by girliegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay away from your exes. Just leave them all alone. You have already broke up with them once, why do it twice?
2006-07-26 19:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure she's not a "rebound", then do what you feel in your heart.
2006-07-26 19:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your ex, too little, too late.
2006-07-26 19:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋