My ex called me saying that she wanted to get back with me. Since I still care deeply for her, I was more than willing to start dating her again. However, she told me that she was only interested in the sex and she had no intentions of re-establishing our relationship. While that might be every guys dream... it is not what I want. I am not complaining cause she is great in bed. However I don't feel that comfortable with her just coming to me for sex while she goes out with other guys, cause I still do care about her.
So how do I get over my feelings for her and just keep it strickly sexual? Or is it even healthy for me to get involved with her knowing that I am not going to truly get over her while she is still around?
2006-07-26 12:01:11 · 10 answers · asked by Eric 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Am I being used???
2006-07-26 12:01:34 · update #1
heyy. i think that she's actually using u. Don't let her do that becuz u deserve some1 much better than her. U love her but she doesn love u. sex is not somthin jst physical its emotional too, its somthin very deep.So don't lose ur time wit her becuz ur not a male barbie for her to use n after a while, when she gets bored, to " throw u in the garbage". be proud of urself n show her that ur a person of a higher quality than her cuz she's only into physical. If i were u i wouldn't respect her.
2006-07-26 12:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by ~butterflyx0x 2 · 17⤊ 2⤋
I know what that feels like, just think of it as a pretty damn good second place prize, we all need to get off. Practice your bed skills for her to use on somebody else when they finally come along, or you can use it as a way to restart the relationship.
2006-07-26 19:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. You are being used to satisfy her needs while she looks for someone who she is willing to commit to (obviously not you). Better get out now before you get too attached and get really hurt.
2006-07-26 19:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and pound her into the mattress anytime she lets you. Use her like a rubber doll and fill every cavity she has. She wants to be used so make it memorable.
2006-07-26 19:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok if this not the relationship you want then don't deal with it just to make her happy obviously she doesn't care about you. which is the very definition of being used.
2006-07-26 19:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude how often doo you get the chance to get a lay without having to risk involvement. BE A MAN...DO THE RIGHT THING...F*** HER *** OFF!!!
2006-07-26 19:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you're being used and it's not healthy. i'd say move on--find someone else-- especially if she's not willing to work it out.
good luck!
2006-07-26 19:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by lookin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy you are a puppy under a spell let her go move on and you'll feel better so yeah your like ttly being used !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 19:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by adrianna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW don't do it and yes she is using you and you will just get hurt again...
2006-07-26 19:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by Irishman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is "NO" future in the past
2006-07-26 19:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋