Ok I like my best guy friend and he told me that he likes me too but the problem is, is that he's already got a girlfriend. He keeps tellin me that he's goin to break up with his girlfriend but he hasn't yet. A girl in a magazine had the same problem as me and asked what to do about it and someone in the magazine said that the guy probably isn't goin to break up with his girlfriend anytime soon and that he likes two girls liking him at the same time, they also said it was all for his ego; But my best guy friend is sooo sweet and I just figured that he doesn't want to hurt his current girlfriend's feelings by breakin up with her so my question is should I keep waiting for him to break up with his girlfriend or just move on? Please help me! Keep in mind that we're both only 13
2006-07-26 11:52:51 · 19 answers · asked by xxx_dance_dance_xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On a scale from 1-10 he said he likes me a 9 and her an 8
2006-07-26 12:17:42 · update #1
He is starting his game playing young... He is stringing you until he is either tired of his current girlfriend or she gets tired of him. He knows you'll be waiting. Sorry, I'm a guy, I know what we are capable of, no matter how nice we can be.
My step-daughter is 13 and she had a boyfriend (a school boyfriend as we really don't let her have a real one) and he was supposed to be this really nice kid. Well, he was going into high school and told her that he wanted to break up with her until she was in high school too! (So she would be there if he couldn't get a high school girlfriend I told her). It took her a couple weeks to figure out that even the nicest guy is capable of being the biggest jerk.
2006-07-26 11:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Robb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the magazine is right...find another guy, you'll find that when you move on, so will he. If anything just stay friends, till he is available. The guy probably likes the fact that he has a back-up if something goes wrong with his current. You should find someone that will like you enough to be devoted to you, even if you are just 13. There will be a better guy out there for you, dont worry. Besides think about this, say he breaks up with his current and goes out with you, you dont want to think that he's liking someone else on the side while he's with you, right? Enjoy the single life or find someone else hunnie
2006-07-26 11:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey your only 13, trust me there will be more. If he has feelings for you then what kind of feelings does he have for her? Drop him and just stay friends it's more healthy for the relationship that you have now. He may be sweet but he already knows how to have 2 girls at the same time. If you really want to have him then you need to make him want you. Get a guy, not just any guy a guy that you have a crush on and go out and see how it goes. You may even start to like this guy more but be careful so you dont hurt the one you like.
2006-07-26 12:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may not answer your question BUT i was in love with this guy and he was always with another girl and the odd time he was free i seemed to be dating someone! In most cases people never end up with their first love. Also if he did go out with you it may ruin the friendship if you break up a bit nasty. Friends are better than nothing. He told me he loved me. He broke my heart. We never made out but have you ever watched the film titanic? They met under the clock when they had both died. He ill drive up in a little red car with no roof and well go and eat marmite butties together. Dont expect too much. If id have stayed with him i wouldnt have had my beautiful son and daughter. You have so much to live for please just keep him as a friend. If things do happen then good. Take care you have so much good life and fun in front of you dont spend your time feeling sad, (Can you not talk to your mum, i no its a bit of a no no subject but i doubt your mum would want you feeling sad.)
2006-07-26 12:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not be offended by my answer, because I certainly remember how important these things were when I was thirteen, but you are way too young to be under this kind of pressure. Hang out with your friends, do your own thing, and don't worry about boys. I know that your friends and everyone else around you are probably putting all kinds of pressure on you, but you need to just enjoy being a young person and do "kid" things. You are not (I am assuming) even in high school yet. May God bless and keep you.
2006-07-26 11:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by blowry007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to do what he wants to do. You can't ask him to break up with her. If he wanted to he would. You are very young and should not sit around waiting for a guy. Continue being friends with him, as long as he is a good friend to you, and move on. Down the road things may change and you can reevaluate your feelings and determine if a relationship at that time is what you want with him. Good Luck!
2006-07-26 12:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by girliegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him as a guy friend only, your relationship will last longer like that. Plus-you don't want to destroy being able to be close to him by adding an aquert feeling if you try to be more than friends and it doesn't work out. Ive been there;it sucks when it doesn't work out the way you planned. It never does.If hes your best guy friend,leave it that way!
2006-07-27 14:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by citycountry26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really to young to be caught up in all this dating, drama, and boyfriend stuff.
Just enjoy all your friends. You really should not be involved with any one guy for very long, nor should your best friend be so involved with a girl for very long.
Enjoy your youth and make lots of friends. There are a lot of other guys that are sweet besides this one.
2006-07-26 11:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness me you're only 13! u have a long long way to go in your life ,my dear.Don't waste your time on waiting for him untill he breaks up with his gf.Move on,my dear,the important thing is your life,u should care yourself more than him,why would u wait for him,get on with your life and go with flow
2006-07-26 12:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you like him but it's best you leave him alone because he'll do the very same to you. Don't put your girlfriend through the heartache because what goes around comes around!
2006-07-26 11:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋