2006-07-26 11:51:57 · 25 answers · asked by look at me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know how many I times I hear this type of question but it's phrased differently, "Why do good guys get bad girls and why do good girls get asshole guys". That's the way the world is and when a guy is interested in a girl and asks her out it's either I'm seeing someone or I don't think so or but you're a nice guy. A lot of guys that you meet are assholes after you get to know them but women can be too. I guess it's women like you and guys like me that get f***ed but not pleasurably. How old are you by the way, I'm curious.
2006-07-26 12:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he was never a dream to start with, but instead, the very nightmare you have been trying your avoid whole life. Most dreams are something our sub-conscious wants us to believe. The man of your dreams won't be a dream at all, instead, he will be someone your whole sole has been waiting for, and your heart will know this. Be patience, he is out there...Live well and happy...
2006-07-26 12:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by jojo04_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how it is. There is no perfect man[or woman]. If he is a total nightmare, then you know what to do. But if his good out weighs his bad, then go back to sleep and keep on dreaming!
2006-07-26 12:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by music 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you feel an instant attraction to that person at first, we kind of overlook the character. Once you get to know him, you realize his true nature. I think we all have high hopes of certain individuals when we first meet. In our minds, we develop that person's personality the way we hope they should behave. As soon as the person's true character comes out in the open and it is to our disadvantage, we naturally feel disillusioned and gradually lose interest in that person. Or another hypothesis could be that men usually take women for granted, once we show them we're so into them. I tell you, the more we ignore men, the more they show interest, and the more attention we give, the interest they suddenly lack.
2006-07-26 11:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm usually women choose the wrong man, and then wants to change them to what her 'ideal' man should be. That's when the nightmare kicks in.
2006-07-26 11:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Da Wizard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you find out that too much of a good thing, like alcohol and drugs eventually harms you. Diversity, adversity and a healthy mix of similarities, seem to make for healthier relationships.
2006-07-26 11:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So that you get to meet the real man of your dreams.
2006-07-26 11:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know girl, but it happened to me!!!! The first year was wonderful, more than I had ever dreamed of...then the last year and a half was sh*tty!!!! Wanna exchange stories???
2006-07-26 11:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they try to be what you like in a man and then finally they really come out but usually when that happens iv already slept with the guy's brother ! ;)
2006-07-26 12:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by adrianna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only means:
!/ You actually HAVE NOT FOUND him
2/ You are a lousy dreamer
3/ You are too picky, and
4/ easy in getting nightmares
Good luck with that.
2006-07-26 11:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋