I've been seeing this guy for one month and he says he was in some menage a trois, so i forgot about it was just his past. Well one day he brings over his "cousin" which is this girl who is bi n he tells me to do it in front of her. I didn't so to test him I asked him to do her. SO they both get on my bed and start doing telling me to join in. Afterwards I tell him to leave, he says he just did what I told him now he says he's sorry.. Well I am confused. Maybe I want an open relationship. What do you think?
2006-07-26 11:42:47 · 13 answers · asked by sillychili 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not really his cousin he calls her his cousin it's his ex's cousing.
2006-07-26 11:55:51 · update #1
He's a giant douche. Get another boyfriend, becasue he's an asshole. If he respected you, he wouldn't have done it.
2006-07-26 11:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right And if you started to see this guy he will be bringing over a variety of people. He will pick up strangers and get you to join in from all kinds of things.
I dated a guy not long ago who was wonderful in most ways or so I thought - then he asked if I would ever enjoy going to a bar and pick up a stranger to join us. I said I am not into that
. and he said thats ok, we don't ever have to do that.
Then I got home and started thinking about it and thought, well if he has done this over the years, he is going to want to do it again and I just can't go there.
I say stick up to your convictions. You don't owe this guy anything. And sure he is sory becuaese, he has lost his chance with you. But geeeeeeeeeeeeze. who wants to be with a guy who has sex with his bi cousin???
I think you are much better quality than him. You deserve a guy who doesn't mess around with a variety of people.
Stand firm in what you want and if he is sorry......too late, he blew it. But, be glad you found out now and not two years from now.
Please don't take this guy back. It makes me sick to think about him and his bi cousin. If he can do this then he can do worse. You don't want to get trapped in a relationship like that.
You deserve a guy who will be true to you.
Stand firm and don't let him convince you to see him again.
2006-07-26 11:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being confused is ok it may be your way of telling yourself to take it easy. Open relationships are fun, but very dangerous. What starts out as an innocent 3some could and most likely endup as a life style. If that's what you want go for it, alternative life styles are addicting and this whole thing may put a damper on your plans so good luck!
2006-07-26 11:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Leididanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEEWWW nasty his own cousin?? And you are confused about getting back with him ?? I think you only asked that question for points cuz why would you want someone thats been with their cousin??
2006-07-26 11:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by toytoy20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I date his cousin?
2006-07-26 11:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Pappa Poopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still upset by this experience and your first thought is your right one!stay away from him until you can figure out what you want!
2006-07-26 11:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by True4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is your thing then stay with the guy,but when he bring's home a relative that's just creepy...and very wrong.
2006-07-26 11:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did exactly what you asked him to do, but l think you need to be with someone who isn't that sick
2006-07-26 11:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't into that type of thing then leave him & eww it was his cousin? definitly leave him
2006-07-26 11:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl100405 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did his cousin??
Your all's babies will be deformed.
2006-07-26 11:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by cave dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋