I have been talking to this guy and often I say something like, "when you get a girlfriend you could...." and he responds with things like, "Yeah I like this girl who is 25, and I like this girl who lives in a cold state, and I like this girl who....." in all of those things he is talking about me. He laughs and smiles. Is that his way of telling me he likes me? Or is he just talking?
Also, if he says that you are soul mates and he wants to marry you, is that sincere or just talk for some booty? Because so far he hasn't gotten any.
2006-07-26 11:40:53 · 39 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Soul mate? c'mon.. reality first....ask questions and pry. If he keeps saying sweet things that is one of your first hints that he is after one thing..Although, I could be wrong but from personal experience the guys that are sweet like that only want one thing. Put it to you this way,....ask him to pick you up to go somewhere. If he shows up half hour or more early you know for sure he is sincere. That is my experience. Good luck!
ps.
Do not tell him that it is a test.
2006-07-26 11:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. This is a dangerous thing, because it sounds like this is an internet relationship. I have had a couple that turned out well, and a couple that didn't. I can honestly say though, that the internet allows people to say and do things that they normally wouldn't, and often turns people into their true selves, or even worse, into someone they completely aren't.
I would completely ignore his talk of marriage and soul mates, etc. for now. Don't forget that he said those things, but don't take them into account for now. Simply ask him, straight forward, if he likes you, and if he wants to be in a relationship with you. If he beats around the idea and doesn't give you a straight answer, then move on. He's either just playing around with you because he knows he has nothing to worry about, or he really is just trying to get in your pants.
If he gives you a straight answer of "yes" and honestly wants to have a relationship, then go with the flow, and see what happens. But don't feel pressured to take things any further than you want to, just because you may have talked candidly in previous conversations.
2006-07-26 11:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by rainsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could mean it in all sincerity...but come on, there's always a quest for booty behind every benign comment - perhaps he does like you and wants booty but isn't afraid of commitment and everything that comes with it - and yeh, what he is doing is a strong indication that he likes you and is saying so - depending on whether you are certain you fit the description (it's a common way guys let you know they like you hoping you'll take the so obvious hint) - or like a lot of a s s holes he could be messing with your head.
2006-07-26 11:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will say anything to get a booty. It's what they say and how they act after they've gotten the booty that you'll really be able to know for sure what he feels for yah.
It's like Russian Roulette with guys.
2006-07-26 11:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 25 and can't tell if a guy likes you or not. trust me guys aren't willing to put that much effort in to getting booty. I'm sure you look great but booty is booty. And there is plenty of booty out there if he only wanted that, so yes he likes you.
2006-07-26 11:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says, "I like this girl..." so that means he likes you.
My Grade 10 boyfriend said we were soul mates and wanted to marry me in Hawaii. I never saw him again after Gr 12.
And he got no booty from me either!
I don't think soul mate is very reliable criteria.
The biggest thing is, Can you Tolerate His Habits?
People get divorced even if they are soul mates, same religion, same race, same ages, same education, same culture, etc.
Why? Because they couldn't tolerate each other's habits.
Oh, and you'll have to tolerate his relatives too. :D
2006-07-26 11:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by 13Cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is very interested and having fun flirting with you at the same time. Guys natrualy have egos.
Does he just want sex? Only he knows that. But the fact you are not having sex with him is a good thing for you.Thats builds respect in a relationship.So if you realy want him to care for you then dont let him use you and if you cant stand it ask him how he feels about you. Dont let him string you along and dont hint. Most guys are not good at getting hints. God knows unless im looking for hints I never know a women is hinting to me.
2006-07-26 11:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by tfh777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes you...
As for the "booty" thing... I mean, it is a possibility but that is something you need to look for yourself. Does he sound sincere and is he normally honest and caring?
2006-07-26 11:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by benh316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with your heart, Sarita. He sounds like a nice guy, and he just may be the best fella that's ever come into your life. But I know that you are vulnerable right now. The only test you need to give him is time. Enough time to learn if he is consistent, and enough time to learn if he always has your needs and welfare as his top priority.
Best regards, my friend
2006-07-26 15:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing Games and filling it with B U L L S H I T is what this guy does well.
He is yanking your chord. Pulling your hair at the same time, wishing that he could massage your breasts.
Tell him you don't take him very seriously, never have. That will stop his behavior.
2006-07-26 11:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋