2006-07-26 11:40:35 · 13 answers · asked by chrisbrownsyounglove1614 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're asking strangers, and you THINK you're ready instead of KNOWING you are, then you don't need to do it.
2006-07-26 11:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are maybe giving in to pressure from your boyfriend. Tell him no for now. How long have you two been together? And I wonder how old you are. I was 16. I am much older now, and when I look back I wonder what I was thinking. It made me feel bad about myself. And the boy that I thought loved me dumped me as soon as he got what he wanted.
You have plenty of time to do such an important thing. Make sure your first experience is with someone who is very special to you and someone who sees you as very special. Boys love to say I love you when it gets them what they want.
You want your first time to be something you can look back on for the rest of your life and be happy about.
2006-07-26 18:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be ready when your married. Dont give yourself away just for a bf. Ask your parents they are there to look out for you. Hmm I wonder where they are while your online asking this kind of stuff to strangers? Not good.
2006-07-26 19:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by tfh777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if you are asking questions like that then you aren't ready. I love how you have it planned out a couple days before. Just roll with it honey, if its your first time, you might want a towel, and be prepared for it to hurt, it gets better by the 4th or 5th time...you have to be relaxed in order for it to happen. Be safe about it too!
2006-07-26 18:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure, then don't. There's nothing wrong with waiting til that special one comes alone like your husband. I know that sounds old fashion. My point is nothing wrong with waiting. And if your boyfriend is pressure you do something on Friday that you are just not comfortable just tell him NO.
2006-07-26 18:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choosing to have sex opens a whole other world. Think it through and decide if your ready for yearly pap smears, vaginal issues(std)and pregnancy. But honestly if you have to ask you are not ready.
2006-07-26 18:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by dominator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed you said that you "think" you are ready. If you are really ready you would wouldn't be asking total strangers to make this decision for you!
2006-07-26 18:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by cricket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask you are never ready, when you become an adult and can assume responsibility for a potential mistake, then you will not ask you will do whatever is necessary in your life, you're not ready! love roccks!
2006-07-26 18:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by love roccks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of good advice here, so I'll just add one little point.
You'll only have one 1st time. And, you'll NEVER forget it. Make sure it's worth remembering!
2006-07-26 19:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see this alot. Problem is, they have sex with you, then end up dumping you later.
Wait till you are sure he is the one.
=> Fred.
2006-07-26 18:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Fred B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋