my beau dumped me after five years and nobody is approaching me. i really want to start dating but not sure what to do. he found a girl quick so why cant i . tips please
2006-07-26 11:35:13 · 9 answers · asked by jaide333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go looking for them. Learn to love being single. By this, I mean get a hobby (or work on one you already have) that will get you out of the house. DON'T focus on meeting guys; focus on yourself and your hobby.
Why? Because if it's obvious that you're looking for a mate, you're unlikely to find one. (Though as a woman, if you're good-looking and were just looking for sex, that would be considerably easier.) People tend to be attracted to people who they don't perceive as needy or clingy.
Another important step is to feel good about yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself all the good things about you - all the good things you have to offer a man. If you have a good attitude about yourself, it will show in the way you walk, talk, and carry yourself, and will make you more attractive.
2006-07-26 11:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with yourself and don't think that just because your ex found someone that you are in a competition. Chill out.....relax. This is the worst time to make relationship decisions after you have been dumped in a long term relationship. Have fun with friends, do activities and seek other interests and wait for Fate and Destiny!
2006-07-26 18:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably went for the looks or what he can get. That is what ppl usually get for the 1st rebound partner!Figure out what you want, steady worker,educated,good family values,likes travel,good at conversation, similar hobbies, religion, etc. Then only date those men, never compromise. Don't go where you and he visited or bars b/c you will never find a good one there. Try going to diff events and take a gf or two and enjoy yourselves. Happy ppl draw happy ppl! Best wishes!
2006-07-26 18:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to clubs and bars to meet "good guys." Try normal places like stores or work even... casual places are where good guys go. Im not saying you won't find a "good guy" at a club or bar... but there will be so many "dogs" that it will be hard to find your way to that nice guy
2006-07-26 18:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by benh316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met DH on Yahoo Personals. We'll be married five years in October. He gets to me sometimes, and I get to him, but I am still amazed that it's already been five years.
2006-07-26 18:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best advice would be, don't look for a new guy, let it come naturally. someone is bound to say 'hi' to you and ask you out. if no one asks you out in the next hour, let me know and i'll go out with you
2006-07-26 18:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by B H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out will you let me know, cuz im still looking for the answer to that 1 myself lol
2006-07-26 18:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out, can you let me know?
2006-07-26 18:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Janet K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you meet me...then you meet a good guy!
2006-07-26 18:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋