what is the best way to tell him!
please some one help me......
2006-07-26 11:32:07 · 27 answers · asked by jessi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
my mom passed away when i was 9 and the babyz father well i havent seen him in 3 weeks i tried calling him but he dont pick up.
my fathers is an alcoholic and iam scared of his reaction...
2006-07-26 11:46:18 · update #1
today at night a social worker is gonna try to help me tonight and we gonna tell him tonight and well he might kick me out, or try to hit me, or sumthing....i really dont wanna make him go trough this but i need him and...........i need hellppppppppp..
2006-07-26 11:48:47 · update #2
you would have to reassure him that you are going to take care of this child, you will get a job so you can support this child, etc. I had my first child when i was 16 years old and i still have my son to this day. It takes alot of work trust me.
2006-07-26 11:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by kznight1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey,This sounds like a very bad situation to bring a baby into!It sounds like a bad sistuation for you to be in as well.Not only shuld you place your baby for adoption you need to be adopted as well ,My heart is breaking for you!You realy need support a adoptive family can help not only your baby but you all the way threw your pregnacy and after too,its like getting a new family.One thats understanding and suportive of you.Do you have any outher familyto turn to?Does your dad have a job and can or will he finachioly support your baby?Babys cost a lot of mon ey every month and with each month the cost increases.How will you support a baby?Please resurch your game plain before you tell your dad he will have questions for you to answer.How old is your babys father?
2006-07-26 12:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by christine h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot of responsibility for someone your age. Maybe you could have another adult that you trust be with you when you talk to your dad. It might be a good idea if your relationship with your father isn't good now. If you are close with your father, then just tell him honestly. He'll be upset, but will still want to take care of his little girl. Stay strong. You'll get through this.
2006-07-26 11:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the person above me said, don't beat around the bush. Be straightfoward and honest about how it happened and make your opinions and needs clearly known. Take responsibility for your actions as the first step of taking responsibility of another human life. You're young but still congratulations on deciding to keep your baby! It's a hard decision and it takes a strong person to make it.
2006-07-26 11:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Charlotte Sometimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the relationship you have with him. But, sweetie you need to do it soon. I am sure that your dad loves you and wants the best for you but, be honest. Let him know that you are scared and have your answers ready for him. What about the boy, he should be there to help you. There is really no easy way to tell your parents that you are. take care of you and good luck
2006-07-26 11:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell him. There is NO way that he's going to be thrilled with the news at this point, and the longer you wait, the angrier he will be when you finally do tell him. This is not the time to be hiding things, especially since you need good prenatal care.
2006-07-26 11:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Julia L. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i admire you, and you are very mature for making this decision, it won't be easy, but doing the right thing it's always much better than just run and hide...
There's no easy way for u to tell him, he will probably get mad anyway.
You just have to express your feelings, don't shout or be agressive cause it will be worse, but be firm and confident in your decision.
I think the most important thing here is to tell him how you feel....
He'll get over it WITH TIME, you have to understand him too, give him time, ok?
2006-07-26 11:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard, but you just have to set a time to tell him. If you have a relative you feel more comfortable with, maybe you could tell them first. Then they could be there when you tell your dad for support. He will most likely be upset at first, but he will get over that. It's the best thing. He needs to know
2006-07-26 11:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Amber D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest, and tell him soon, your mother and you,or if that isnt possible a case worker and your self, or if you can talk to your dad tell him soon it will hurt but if he is a good dad he will understand,and he will aways love you no matter what i hope he is that kind of dad if you are scared of him have someone with you, grandparents or mother or someone else what ever the circumstance is make it known soon for you,
2006-07-26 11:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Be honest. If it hurts, cry. Don't hold anything back. The best thing for you to do is to accept that you've made the choice, and you now have this child to live with and accept, too. Good luck.
2006-07-26 11:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by your_perfect_enemy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋