iam 15 years old and iam pregnant and iam 100% percent sure iam gonna keep it!but my dad doesnt noe!1?

Question

what is the best way to tell him!
please some one help me......

Answer 1

15 and sex? wtf is this world gettin into.
and final wtf? u dont know wa the **** condoms r?
stay in the fu*kin school and learn, not have sex. wtf
see wa u get for that! a kid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! kids shouldnt have kids.

Answer 2

There is really no best, good or easy way to break this kind of news honey..... all you can do is tell him you need to talk about something and then sit him down and be as open and honest with him as you can be about everything leading up to the pregnancy.......im not gonna lie it wont be easy and he might even get upset.....infact i would say there is a pretty good chance he will be abit upset by the news, but if your dad loves you ......he will be there to support you in any decision concerning your baby.

There is alot to take in when it comes to having and raising a baby kiddo..... do you realize you wont be able to go out with your friends like you used to, will have to eventually find a way to pay for this child and things he/she will need, there will be sleepless nights due to having to be up to feed, diaper and comfort the baby.......there is so much more to raising a child than you could ever begin to take in.......im 36 and just now getting to the point where one day im ready to have a child......Ive babysat numerous children and that includes my niece and I love kids, but wasnt ready for my own until recently.

Sex is a big step in itself and you are sooooo young to be doing anything sexual kiddo......but what is done is done and in the past and I want to tell you I will be praying for you and wishing you the best in whatever you decide and most important God loves you and your baby and is always there for you.

Good luck to you honey and God bless!

Answer 3

Get the "my Bad" over with, he will freak, but then help you, let him have his freak out- don't argue, don't say anything unhelpful, be as sweet as you can even when he's freaking, don't run away, be super understanding, let him get it out of his system.

The guy who "did" you probably will be out of the picture, as he will not have the means to be a "father" but if he cared, he would BE the father- as in RAISING the kid, but i really doubt it. you will be on your own-

now if you have a girl, what can you tell her when she gts to be 15?

You can forget about being a musician, or artist, or doing stuff because you will be taking care of a precious human being. Although, maybe if you don't do a repeat, you can go to college when you kid is 18, and you are 33 years old- you could actually have a very cool life to do what you want and have a kid who is independant by then. It will be hard to be a 19 y/o girl with a 4 year old- i hope you learn sense and don't let it make you lose your grip. Be stronger than youv'e ever been, girl!

Answer 4

The sooner you tell him the better. If you are serious about keeping the baby..... which I think you should reconsider adoption.... then you need to get prenatal care asap. Just find a time to tell him you need to talk to him about something really important. Tell him you have made a BIG mistake and now you are pregnant. Let the cards fall where they may... he may have some really aweful things to say to you , he may cry , he may storm out ... it's hard to say how he will handle the news. BUT you need to tell him ASAP. Just don't take the attitude that you can do what you want or get overly defensive or fight with him. A parent hearing their teenager is pregnant is heart breaking to the parent and he/she has the right to be angry/hurt/scared and to vent. Just keep your mouth shut and show them some respect and things will go a lot better for both of you.

Answer 5

yes you are very young .......bit dont let ANYBODY badger you into a desision. I was 16 still in school and pregnant with my first child. yes i kept him! i met my hubby 1y 3m latter and weve been married almost 16 years. it was not eady not in the least and there are things that i could have done better but i DO NOT regret it!

how did i tell my Dad? well i took him to lunch at a restaraunt (he paid lol) I felt it a safe place to be where he wouldn't go nuts. infront of a croud wher we got out of the car he cryied and told me that i should have come to him sooner........... not i told you so or name calling....... but he said that the way i handled telling him showed some responsebility...................i hope this helps you hunny........ E me if you ever want to talk

Answer 6

you can always deliver your baby and hand it over to a safe haven place.

In CA, police, fire,and hospitals must accept a baby being dropped off as part of an amnesty surrender program as long it is a newborn within 3 days of birth.

No questions asked.


BTW, it will be impossible to hide a pregnancy....better tell him now than later. Drop it like the bomb and run.

Answer 7

Hey chick I am with you on that one except I am 17 and pregnant and my dad doesn't know. I don't know how to tell him so let me know what all answer you get back and if you ever wanna talk just hollar at me. Best of luck for the both of us!

-cyn-

Answer 8

Do your child a favor, give him to a home with a mother and a father. Someone who is not a child themselves. At 15 you cannot possibly know what you are in for. Don't make this mistake to you or your child.

Answer 9

write him a letter telling him everything that happened and put it somewhere you know he will look and then leave and let him find the letter and read it while ur gone so he can get rid of all of his anger by the time you come home then you guys can talk about once he is cooled down

Answer 10

Well when your only 15 there is no good way to tell him. Just sit him down and tell him the truth.

Answer 11

If you were in my family my dad would kick you out of the house and be yelling a lot. I hope your dad isn't like mine. Good Luck telling him.