My step dad is sooooo hott I know it's wrong but I can't help myself. he's only a few years older than me. I can't talk about it with my mom.
2006-07-26 11:30:44 · 40 answers · asked by Ashley s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Umm...gross. You might have some father issues. Either way, that is your mom's man, and it is WRONG!!!! Why don't you try talking to your mom about it, so she can slap you! Find your own man....
2006-07-26 11:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If this is a real issue and not just made up, then tell your mom immediately. There's nothing wrong or abnormal about being attracted to a man with good qualities. He must be attractive, or your mom wouldn't have married him, and you probably have many things in common with your mom, after all, you came from her.
But you don't want trouble, so tell you mom. Then you will have someone there who is aware. If you don't, and your step-dad at some point gets a thing for you, you might find yourself compromised, as has happened to so many others in this situation. That would be far worse than telling your mom about your attraction to him.
2006-07-26 11:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you now, or have you ever lived in a trailer? Perhaps the Jerry Springer show is where you need to be. You get free plane tickets, free hotel rooms, free meals and you get to be on TV. Cool, huh? The perfect place for a family vacation.
Just joking, but maybe not.
Anyway, seriously DO NOT TELL YOUR MOM!. It will not help and to do so would be about as good as sleeping with the guy. Sometimes these things work out. I mean look at Woody Allen. But mostly they don't and you are talking about a lifetime of mistrust and resentment between you and your mom if she finds out.
2006-07-26 11:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek guidance or councelling from someone you can trust. This situation has a good chance of turning ugly if not handled properly and the relationship you have with your mom could change.Your case could be common among girls who have males who are not blood relations living in the same household.
2006-07-26 11:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by tabz_nate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that he's "sooooo hott". He's married to your mom. Distance yourself and start looking at other hot guys. He's taken.
2006-07-26 14:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by leavao1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would SO freak her out, so you can't talk to your Mom about it. Just think of how much it would destroy all of your lives if you acted on your attraction. Maybe someday, their relationship won't work out. Then you can move in and pretty much guarantee yourselves spots on a Springer episode.
2006-07-26 11:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!!!! Of course you can't talk to your mom about this. Try very hard to focus on another guy besides you step dad. If you love your mom, you will try real hard.
2006-07-26 11:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare you lay eyes on your stepdad?!? Have you no respect for your mother?!? How old are you?!? There are plenty of other men out there, choose one of your own and leave him alone. If he makes a move on you, then he is as dirty and disrespectful as you are. I never laid eyes on my stepdad. My friends thought he was cute and I laughed it off. My mom is now in heaven and I still wouldn't lay eyes on that man. My mom meant everything to me. Have some respect for yours.
2006-07-26 11:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incestuous relations only lead to the destruction of marriages, families and people. You ought to be ashamed of your lewd and crooked thoughts and dedicate your life towards a better future.
2006-07-26 11:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. Stop sitting there pondering about it. Get out in the real world and find a man you dont have in your family.
2006-07-26 11:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by sicilygal2581 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably go to counseling. This attraction to a father-figure probably comes from some deep issues within you.
2006-07-26 12:05:01 · answer #11 · answered by Courtney T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋