On two occasions my boyfriend has sent me txt messages to my phone by mistake that were meant for his ex-girlfriend. When i confronted him about the first txt he lied but i knew and he confessed he had lied but swore they hadnt met up or anything. Ever since these incidents i have had alot of anger for him because now i cant trust him and he could still be seeing her for all i know. I love him but i'm really angry all the time and jealous about it because i know he really loved her. I feel like punching him.
2006-07-26 11:19:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really hurts to feel that way. I know. Because of the fact that he lied to you I would say dump him. If he lies to you about this he is trying to hide something and should not be trusted. If there was nothing to hide why wouldn't he just be honest with you?
Oh,yeah I know the answer to that one.....He was just trying to protect you.....Not!
2006-07-26 11:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put his love to the test. Suggest that you're thinking of breaking up. If he gets concerned about it, he probably isn't seeing her and still values your companionship together. (If so, his texting to his ex-girlfriend is probably nothing, and the only reason he lied is because he didn't want to complicate things. Ironic I know.)
If he doesn't seem to flinch, or in other words, doesn't sound like he cares much, then he is undoubtedly cheating on you, and if that's the case, I would then suggest that you leave him and pursue another guy who doesn't have that kind of history with someone.
2006-07-26 18:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are much better than that! Why would you wanna be with a liar?!? If he wants his ex, then let her have him. Obviously he isn't smart cause he is wanting to be around her again. How dumb is that?!? Say goodbye to this guy and move on cause he isn't worth you getting angry over. He obviously can't move on from her to have room in his heart for you. He doesn't love you. Good luck!
2006-07-26 18:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah someone else i no was like that too,basically my ex,iv known her for ten yrs now and i hadnt seen her in almost a yr and a half i see her once then that girl gets al jealous thinkin that im gonna back together wit my ex,wen i hav no intention of doin that cause shes gettin married lol
2006-07-26 18:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I wouldn't punch him. That's not the answer, but if you really feel like you can't trust him, you need to end the relationship now. What can you build a relationship on if you can't build it on trust?
2006-07-26 18:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont trust my man 100 percent but its to end it isnt it.i dont think he did meet his ex,i still text my ex but would never meet him.text him and tell him you wanna give him space so he can realise what he wants.when i met my ex a year back he drove me made talking about his ex but now i talk about her and he dont and ive never met or seen the tart. good luck
2006-07-26 19:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, he didn't send those messages by accident. He knew exactly what he was doing! It might be his way of hinting to you that he wants to get back with her. Be careful.
2006-07-26 18:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still likes her i bet!! but it all depends on the txt, if it was an i still love you txt dump him. if it was a friendly one then leave it out! they shared an experience together and broke up for good reason! maybe there just saying hello.. i dunno dump the W***er
2006-07-26 18:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Brazil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch him them dump him!
2006-07-26 18:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! Don't waste a punch!!
2006-07-26 18:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Fluke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋