would god judge a person for leaving a mentally abusive marriage would he want me to stay and work it out or would he want me to leave and find happiness ? I mean after all marraige vows r for better or worse if im not happy in my marriage but have sacrificed everything even myself as a person what am i do to ?? would i go to hell for remarrying if i ever did ? in gods eyes what would he want for me to do ?? im confused but wanna do whats right in gods eyes
2006-07-26 11:19:15 · 16 answers · asked by tainted.luv 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God would want you to pray to him and ask him what he would want you to do. Seek professional help, minister, counselor, etc.
2006-07-26 11:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by resilience 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God wants whats best for his children. Truly the first thing that I would suggest is to establish whether or not your spouse is willing to trust in God as much as you do.
Then If they do, Then I would suggest that you both be on your knees together and ask for His help. And do this morn, noon and eve.
Also attempt to seek help for both parties. And If all else fails then Yes I would say leave because you can't live in torture when there are many other good people to be married to who can encourge, edify and develop with you as a Child of God.
As a member of the mormon church we believe in Eternal Marriage and happiness for the husband and wife and believe that God has plans for all his children.
I hope this helps.
2006-07-26 16:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by scrub_sr@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman who left a marriage for a reason not biblical. The bible says this: "a woman is not to leave her husband, but if she does, she is either to reconcile with her husband, or remain unmarried". (1Corin 7:10)
I never presume to tell anyone what to do...that is between you and God. I know that I am glad I am out of that marriage, God has restored my life and given me a beautiful and lovely life. But, I will not marry again. I don't want to.
I pray that you will seek His will (and His will is not for you to be abused; God's word also says for a husband to love His wife as Christ does the church)...and that He will guide you in whatever choice you make, knowing that He loves you completely.
2006-07-26 11:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by christian_lady_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying in an abusive relationship is a form of self abuse. God doesn't want you doing that either. You deserve better, get on with a new life and talk to God from there.
2006-07-26 11:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that only you can answer. I do believe that marriage is sacred but in cases of abuse it is very difficult to "work things out" as the abuser is usually unwilling to change. If people are telling you that you are going to hell or that you are wrong just ask them this question "were you married to him?" if the answer is no then they can't talk.
2006-07-26 11:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ethan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.. my opinion is that you shouldn't stay in the relationship. You are worth FAR more than to be abused by anyone. He loves you and NOTHING you do will ever seperate you from that love.. nothing. Pray, and don't stop praying. Pray for your spouse too.. and trust that God will work all things into good. Romans 8:28
Romans 8:28
And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.
2006-07-26 11:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by MELLO26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in an abusive relationship be it mental or physicall, I truly don't believe god would hold it against you to leave it, You should talk to your pastor though..he can give you much better advice on religion then I can I'm sure
2006-07-26 11:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you need to work out with God.
In some situations, it is better to stay, and try to be the example that will lead him to Christ. If it is at all possible, I believe in my heart that this is what God would want you to do. Sometimes, patience, love, and kindness can do miracles.
You are to be commended because you want to do what is right in God's eyes. I believe God knows your desire is to please Him, and, if you trust Him, He will lead you in the way He wants you to go.
2006-07-26 11:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart,If you think you'd be a better & healthier
person outside this marraige than it's up to you to do what you have to.God didn't say for people to abuse eachother it's a sin to do so,your suffering and may be depressed wich may lead to more serious threats.Be careful do what's right.good luck
2006-07-26 11:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to relate God to religion. Religion, along with heaven ,hell, and all those paganistic rituals, is man-made. I would approach your problem from perhaps, the moral perspective. Good luck.
2006-07-26 11:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cold beer. A plate of hot wings and a seat at a nice patio.
He is God. He can have whatever he wants whenever he wants it.
TFTP
2006-07-26 11:23:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋