He did it to pay me back. I made me watch him have sex with another woman, Why do men do this?
2006-07-26 11:12:40 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, I think I'm going to be sick. You both need to seek some major counseling!!!
2006-07-26 11:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All three of you need help. You for cheating in the first place, him for making you watch him, while he had sex with another woman, and the woman who allowed herself to be used by the husband in that manner. Get out while the gettin is good. He sounds like the type who will try to keep you there, just to go on punishing you. Leave while he's at work. Take as much as you can with you. Get some help, and take what you know to be yours, and get out of town, if possible, or go live with your parents or a girlfriend. If you work, pay them to change there phone number, and get a divorce lawyer as soon as possible.
2006-07-26 11:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by virgiinia r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have sex with some men and make your husband watch you having sex and playing with his sweet big *** so that he can feel the same pain that you felt watching him making sex to another women besides having his wife for sex.
2006-07-26 11:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why did you sit and do it. No, it's not ok for a husband to have sex with other women. He sounds like some kind of awful person. You know why men do this because we as women allow them to do this to us. No woman deserves no matter what she does.
2006-07-26 11:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have stood up to him and left him know that kind of stuff does not work with you. If you cheated on him then He should have thrown you out or made you do something with him that punished you but getting another woman was wrong. PERIOD. Let him know he looked really dumb porking her and unless he apologizes for what he did you legs will Be crossed for a long long time.
2006-07-26 11:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he make you watch? You both need help, especially you. I think you just like being a victim. Otherwise, you would not have married someone like that, you wouldn't cheat, and you wouldn't let him "make" you watch him have sex with another woman.
Not all men do that. The ones that do that do it becase you let them.
Stand up and stop being a victim.
2006-07-26 11:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he make you watch? Did he hold your eyes open?
Anyway, did you cheat first and he did this as a pay back? Then I'll say shame on you for cheating on your husband! And to him I'll say, Stupid ***! Don't be so childish, payback never makes things even, it just makes things worse.
Get a divorce because neither one of you will ever trust the other ever again.
2006-07-26 11:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's okay. And it's also okay for wives to have sex with other men.
Having sex with the same person is unhealthy. Human beings need sex with different people all the time.
If a man sees a hottie, then it's natural for him to hit on her and luckily sleep with her. The same goes for women. If a woman, sees a stud-muffin hottie, then she will do everything she can to get his attention and hopefully sleep with him.
2006-07-26 11:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by NJboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had sex with someone else to pay you back that's not love and made u watch time to go your separate ways
2006-07-26 11:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend where do i start mens please tell me you didn't think it's ok? that issue all by it self says enough two wrong don't make a right & he is not right because even if you did do wrong or hurted him it's best to leave that person alone because once you cheat it takes away the trust & without trust the relationship is over. sometimes you have to ask yourself do i luv me?get on your knees & pray for your marriage if the almighty feels it's meant for you & your husband to be together than thats what it will be
2006-07-26 11:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by miss.34carmel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he make you watch him have an affair?!! It was stupid for you to have cheated on him and even more so for him to think that pay back is any kind of an answer to the kind of problem you two are having.
2006-07-26 11:24:59 · answer #11 · answered by shywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋