why the hell do guys use girls????
i am so upset at this guy who everybody says is using me
i mean do guys have absolutly NO consideration of the persons feelings!!!!!!!!!!!!! uuuuuggggghhhhh
2006-07-26 11:09:40 · 13 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm a nice guy.
honest
i promise
i really mean it
i ammmmmmmmmmm
i'd never use a women
never
unless i thought i could get a shag
thats different of course.
can i have your id?
2006-07-26 11:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is one women all over the world would like. Honestly in allot of cases I think men really do not care about anyone but themselves and are too chicken to actually talk to women and say "hey I don't think this is working out." They like to take the easy road and just drop off the planet; you know never return phone calls; act live they never knew you. You just need to pick your guys carefully because I will admit there are some men who are just dreams.....but these men are few and far between. When you find one you have to hold on to him!
2006-07-26 18:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes. Guys can care less about anyone feelings. That is what it means to be a guy.
Why to guys use girls? Because they can and the girls let them get away with it time after time after time.
2006-07-26 18:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women give off signals and when they signal their willingness to be used naturally guys will jump on them. The women that show strength and determination do not get used because guys know they will not take the stuff. Raise your image and learn to get the respect you want instead of falling prey to guys that just want to use you. Blame yourself not the guys because guys are like children and will do whatever they can to be happy.
2006-07-26 18:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is using you... why do you let it continue?
I see girls constantly do this to themselves when there are quite a few nice guys who will be happy to sweep them off their feet.
It's hard to feel bad for you ladies when you are the ones who are putting yourselves into those kinds of positions. Leave the jack@$$ and move on...
2006-07-26 18:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by benh316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they can take advantage of someone, they will. Some guys are just mean and rude. I guess there are girls that do the same. If you let them is the key though. So stick up for yourself and give him a taste of his own actions.
2006-07-26 18:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why guys use you?- because you let them to. Judging by your avatar, your grammar level and your way of expressing you are either too young or too blond. Guys can only use you if you let them. If you keep your guard up and you stay in control of yourself then no guy in the world can use you. I've never been used by guys and I've had plenty of boyfriends, all part of meaningful relationships.
2006-07-26 18:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just after girls for their bodies and nothing else. I am sorry you are in such a situation, I hope you evaluate your relationship with him before you act.
2006-07-26 18:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by AA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some narrow minded guys may use girls.
but i don't think that a normal man having sister and mother could use a girl for bad thing.
2006-07-26 19:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by friendsking1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use is a broad word. why do all people accept less than they deserve or have earned? human nature . dont sweat the small stuff and respect yourself and the world will be abetter place for us all.
2006-07-26 18:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋