I just got out of a very disruptive relationship. He continues to call constantly wanting to do things for me. and telling me he loves me. I moved out but he still hunts for me. What to do?
2006-07-26 11:08:44 · 9 answers · asked by mzpanther205 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My situation was different than that. I never actually dated the guy, he was just obsessed with me and I ended up having to move to another city. It was the only way to be rid of him.
2006-07-26 11:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19 I was with this girl for 2 years and one day I was really stupid and thought the grass was greener on the other side of the fence. So I said the worst thing I ever could have said and that was "maybe we could see other people for a while". Well any way it wasn't greener so I wanted to go back to her. I didn't realise how much I was in love with her until she wasn't there. So I did what your talking about. I followed her, I was jealous and I wouldn't give up. Now I'm 44 years old and I can look back on that and I know what she could have said to me to end it. If she would have looked me in the eye and said it's over and I don't want to see you anymore. I think that would have worked. But she kept leaving hope there for me. If you really want him to leave you alone you must get hope out of the picture and make it clear what you want.
2006-07-26 11:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Go Rush! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen here sweetheart and listen good!Are you sure your done with him?? It makes me wonder you say he is calling you right? WEll why are you answering the phone? If you really didnt want him talking to you then you would change the number if you had too. Trust me ive been throw this situation and got myself in some serious trouble, even though i hated when he called telling me he loved me, he can change, even to yell at me, I loved it too, it makes you feel good that someone wants to be with you that bad, but its not you he wants to be with its how he controlled you, how you let him get away with everything. If he really loves you he wont say what he can do for you but what he can do for himself, he really shouldnt be saying it either he should be doing it. If you really want to get rid of him, its simple, dont answer the phone you see him cross the street, and whatever you do dont get in touch with him no matter what! Its hard to leave something so comfortable but its beeter to be alone for a while than to be with someone that treats you like a child. I hope this made sense to u
2006-07-26 11:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by jamaicanstar1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl yes...im in this same situation. But, his phone calls have stopped since I changed my cell number and when I saw his sisters in the store I went the other way. You just have to make it like you left the face of the earth so he can get it through his head that yes, you Really Did Leave Him!
2006-07-26 11:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously jealous. It sounds such as you may the two tell your ex, confront her, or tell the police that she is harassing you. This female sounds psycho. Please be careful. initiate retaining a log of her telephone calls. record each and every communication if a possibility. Write down what she says. this way you would be waiting to teach that she is making threats. Does she be attentive to the place you reside? optimistically no longer...you never be attentive to what can take place.
2016-11-03 01:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its that bad get an unlisted number and a restraining order
2006-07-26 11:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg there's this guy who has liked me for like 3 years and he's known that i don't like him for 2 years..yet he still won't leave me alone or get over me. it's scary
2006-07-26 11:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cout me in sister!!think about talkin'2 him,just b straight w/him so he gets it fast n so thise situation of urs doent becomes a problem 4 u.or him...ACT FAST! before it goes far...
2006-07-26 11:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by don 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer his calls for one!And when he tells you he loves you,tell him he will get over it.it will take time.Don't encourages him what so ever.
2006-07-26 11:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋