My best friend wants to watch me have a sex with husband if she cant join in. Husband said no to 3some.....how do i ask him this?
2006-07-26 10:59:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ruin your marriage by being stupid. Keep what you do in the bedroom how it should be, PRIVATE!!!
-What you do w/ your husband should be intamit, not for someone elses entertainment.
2006-07-26 11:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone is okay with it, this could be fun.
You should ask him during a moment of passion...while you're making love, ask him if he thinks it would be hot if some girl were watching you right now...see how he responds.
If he's into the idea, tell him this fantasy could become a reality if he wants.
Or...
You could ask your girlfriend to take some photos while she's watching. By telling your husband how cool it'd be to have photos of you two making love, it'd be an easy transition to having a girl take them, and having your best friend volunteer to do so.
2006-07-26 11:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband doesn't want a 3some. He probably doens't want your friend to watch then either. You can ask him, but chances are slim: he'll probably consider it a stepping stone to a 3some.
You'll have to talk to him to find out why he doesn't want a 3some. Does he have cause to be jealous or worried about you and your friend?
2006-07-26 11:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by pete_can_do 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him flat out "She wants to know is she can watch."
A man turning down a 3some. Man. That's not saying much about your friend.
2006-07-26 11:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is not into the 3some thing then u better stir clear let your friend know that `he is not for it. I ould not even bring it to his attention could cause problems.
2006-07-26 11:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by rachellemgeorge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one horny girl. You like to watch and be watched, you want 3somes (and more probably) and you like girls. I think you're with the wrong guy and should leave him and find someother guy who will take care of you and let you find your sexual self ... and have 3somes.
2006-07-27 07:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Michael T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you'd want someone to watch you and your husband having sex.. My bf is the same way. He doesn't want any threesomes of any kind, which I'm grateful for because I don't wanna sleep with another woman.
2006-07-26 11:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do the wrong guys find great women like you and your friend! If only my wife and her friends were like that! Not all guys are into that stuff, but I totally am and I'm very open to it. But, if your husband isn't, he isn't.
Do you want to go down on your friend?
2006-07-26 11:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by The Answer Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go their. you need to respect what your husband wants. sometime doing something like this might mess up your marriage. and if you love your husband and respect him you will forget it. tell your best friend to go and find some one else to have a three some with. and leave you and husband alone.
2006-07-26 11:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what is ok and what is not in terms of your sex life. As for me, sex is the most intimate act I can participate in. It is the expression of my feeling for another and has nothing to do with anyone else but myself and my partner.
2006-07-26 11:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋