There's a guy that I like ALOT. He knows I'm interested and I have asked him if he's interested in me. His reply to me is I don't have an answer. I'm a bit confused, but just kind of acted like it didn't bother me. But it does bother me. I guess I've always had an answer for everything and have never delt with someone who didn't have an answer for something like that. Either they like you or not. So...what do you think?
2006-07-26 10:53:50 · 19 answers · asked by Fuzzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says something stupid like that then he is not interested.
2006-07-26 10:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of gus are just nerves. I know I was when girls asked me out or asked me if I was interested. the answer was yes to some of them but what if they did not like me or just wanted a date and I was scared that they were going to break up with me soon. Say you wont and that should do it.
2006-07-26 18:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't have an answer because he is undecided if he likes you as much as you like him. He doesn't want to flat out say yes, as that would be a lie. He doesn't want to flat out say no because not only would that be a lie it would also hurt you. So he took the diplomatic approach and said I havn't made my mind up yet.
Kudos however on telling him. That is usually the first step in starting a sating relationship.
2006-07-26 17:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this guy yank you around. Make sure you were clear when you posed your question. Make sure he knows that you are interested, and not trying to reject him. But if he continues to play games then you should move on and not waste your time.
2006-07-26 18:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he certainly didn't say, "I am not interested in you." Keep that in mind. At the same time, he didn't say yes either. My best answer is that he isn't ready to tell you, or he isn't positive of his feelings yet. Try not to take it negatively.
2006-07-26 17:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rita Bonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have an answer for you because he is probably interested in another girl too....like your best friend.
2006-07-26 17:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by B H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I GAVE YOU THAT ANSWER, I WOULD HAVE MEANT IT AS... "YOU ARE OK BUT LET ME SEE IF SOMETHING ELSE COMES UP BEFORE I DECIDE TO EVEN SHOW YOU THAT I AM INTERESTED IN YOU"
I WOULD PROBABLY PASS ON YOU SINCE THERE MIGHT BE A TRAIT ABOUT YOU THAT I DONT LIKE. SUCH AS EXCESSIVE TALKING, TOO MUCH MAKE-UP ETC... SOMETHING SMALL LIKE THAT THAT MAY BUG ME.
2006-07-26 17:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by snowbomb7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt and say i need a real answer because i like you just be straight forward with him and if he doesnt like you in the same way you can always get another one! lol
2006-07-26 17:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't giv u a definite answer but he's either too afraid to tell u he likes u..or he's not interested and doesn't really want to giv u an answer
2006-07-26 18:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is one odd way for him to flirt, well I wouldn't wait for him to make up his mind, it shouldn't be that hard...I wouldn't wait around for him, there are other guys that will be more than happy to be with you, and wont have to contemplate on the matter...thats weird, I've never heard of that response...I dont think he would be worth it
2006-07-26 17:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋