you see this guy wants to go out with me but am not interestead but i said yes only because he is a great guy and then this guy asks me out witch i do want to go out with but sense i said yes to the other guy and i dont want to say no to the other one because i do want to go out with him and am not sure what to do. I mean the first guy is so nice and his like really fun and all but i just dont... am not interestead WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!?
2006-07-26 10:47:06 · 8 answers · asked by Mely_Vet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
10 POINTS IF YOU GIVE ME A GOOD ANSWER
2006-07-26 10:48:35 · update #1
Be honest with the guy that you do like and let him know that you are interested in going out with him and perhaps on another night. Explain to him that a friend has asked you out and because you have already said yes, you do not want to cancel because you understand how that would make the other person feel. If this other gentleman that you do want to date is worth anything. He will understand your desire to not hurt your friends feelings. Plus he will also understand that you are not saying "no", you are saying "yes" but another night. If he is a quality guy he will understand.
2006-07-26 10:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by big_dreamer2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So let me see if I got this straight...the first "great" guy just asked you out, right? I mean, he didn't ask yo to marry him, or to travel the world with him, or to pay for his new car...
What is the big deal. Go out with him and have some fun. Just be honest and open. You don't have to commit to a future just to go out. Surely, you have had other "only" dates before. Stranger things have happened; you might actually find out "great guys" that are nice and fun to be with are rare finds.
Best wishes!
2006-07-26 11:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LEAD GUYS ON! It only makes everything worse. Believe me I have learned from my own experiences, stop trying so hard to be the nice girl and don't say yes out of pity or sympathy. If you aren't interested, nip it in the bud, end it before it starts and before you give the poor guy false hope. TRUST ME. Go for the one you want. The one you rejected will appreciate you not leading him on as well.
2006-07-26 10:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is still go out with him, you never know maybe you will surprise yourself and still have ea good time. Since he really likes "you", reschedule and also go out with the boy you really like. You should never go back on your word so kill two birds with one stone and enjoy your sweets by going out with cutie and gain no weight by keeping your word and dating the nice but, not so likable other guy.
2006-07-26 11:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by love2love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the first guy what you wrote in your question thing. he's a fantastic guy but you just can't be with him because you just don't have that connection if you want to call it that. then give it some time and ask if the second guy is still interested.
2006-07-26 10:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by kay.ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a prior commitment....you should go on your date with the first guy. After that, then you can make a date with the second guy. Don't be a flake.
2006-07-26 10:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by bcuz1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the first guy that its not him and hes really nice and funny and stuff but u need to break up with him
then go to the second guy
follow ur heart
2006-07-26 10:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tite Chickaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the first guy the truth and nothing but the truth. He may or may not be able to handle it but he has no choice.
2006-07-26 10:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by B H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋