I gave a note to this girl I really like... I told her that everytime I talk to her, everytime I even get a glimpse of her, my heart starts to mealt and my body gets weak, and the only way I can feel better is she became a part of my life.. After she read it, she never talk to me again... I'm sad.. why are you girls like that???
2006-07-26 10:40:37 · 30 answers · asked by poplockerbreaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You p*ssy!
Go find another one you wimp
Grow a backbone!
2006-07-26 10:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sweet but did you guys even talk before? Because if you really don't know each other yet then it probably came off too strong, and possibly a tad obsessive. Next time you see her explain to her that you didn't mean to come on so strong and that you'll back off a bit if that's what will make her more comfortable. If you guys really don't know each other start talking more and get to know each other better. If you're already friends hang out more and show her how much of a fun person you are. Good luck, it seems like you really do care about her.
2006-07-26 17:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by italian_swim_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's sweet..but that's the problem w/ the note thing: u gotta be "a man" about it and tell her face-to-face. that way, she will matter-of-fact be able to say "yes" or "no" to you. it may be scary, but that's the best way to do it. and also, u can maybe try to change her mind if she orignally wanted to say no, but u could be sweet as possible and show her how much u mean it. since u just gave her the note, and if she doesn't agree then she has the opportunity to ignore u w/o talking about it at all. so instead of giving her the opportunity to ignore w/o talking to u, i say next time tell the girl u like her, and u want to go out. wait for what she says; if she says yes, great! if no, then say ok, and walk away. there are plenty of fish in the sea, and u need/want someone who likes u just as much as u like them. don't be sad about this girl either.....you deserve someone who appreciates u!!
2006-07-26 17:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply , she is a cold and heartless ***** ! She doesn't like you in that way and is not woman enough to pull you to the side , thank you for the compliment but state that you two can only be friends. A lot of woman want men but many unfortunately act like little girls. Forget her and move on. Remember you are a decent individual and she is a callous pig !
2006-07-26 17:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by QUI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably scared her coming on to strong. But talk to her say hi, when you see her work your way up to casual conversation. Some girls get freaked out when guys come on to strong, and maybe she likes you but is just to shy or afraid what others will think. This idea sounds a little crazy but like if a guy tells me he likes me I think it a joke so I brush him off, maybe she thought it was a cruel joke, try to talk to her again you never know
2006-07-26 17:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by : ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it the girls fault ? You have a note to someone who you didn't make sure liked you to begin with. Is she supposed to go out with you because you wrote her a note ? If she doesn't like you in that way what do you want her to do ? Next time make sure the girl likes you before you give her a note like that.
2006-07-26 17:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls are shy. Maybe she do not know how to react do an old school move send her a note that says do you like me check one box yes or no if you don't get an answer than its no but if she gives it back most likely its yes go for it and good luck
2006-07-26 17:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't want a guy that falls apart whenever he talks to her. It screams desperation. Next time act more confident, approach the girl as if you are the prize. However, don't come across as too arrogant. NEVER act desperate!!! You'll be shot down for sure.
2006-07-26 17:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anna Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may feel very awkward. It happened to me and I didn't know what to do. I was not attracted to him and it just made things really odd.
Eventually we started talking again, but it took me a long time to initiate the conversation.
2006-07-26 17:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell her taht your heart starts to mealt or melt?
2006-07-26 17:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Dorothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really hate to say this but from the sounds of it you came on a little stronger than the girl was ready for. proclaiming your love when she doesn't even know you? start off a little slower, better luck next time
2006-07-26 17:44:42 · answer #11 · answered by christina s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋