My new bf of 2 weeks slept with me at the same time he was getting back with his ex. I told her but she did not believe me. Was it a waste of my time?
2006-07-26 10:10:58 · 26 answers · asked by in need of advice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it was a waste of your time.. she doesn't know you and she is certainly not going to believe you over the lies he tells.. Better off the jerk is out of your life, Girl.. Time to move on and forget about that one.
2006-07-26 10:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For starters, you knew he was getting back with her but slept with him anyway? Sounds like you need to take a long look at yourself and what exactly your motives behind your little rendevous really were. Second, after you realize that you only slept with him to have a story to tell her in hopes they wouldn't get back together, realize that you made a very wrong choice. Third, realize that once a cheater always a cheater and she can have him. You don't need him and she'll eventually find out the hard way (I'm guessing they broke up the first time because he wanted someone else ~ perhaps you?). Move on with your life and find a man who is going to treat you with the respect you can't even give yourself. Oh, and don't forget to respect yourself in there somewhere. You are important too.
2006-07-26 17:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lanie Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your new BF and he's trying to get back with his ex, you need to let him go. She's not gong to believe anything you say because to her, you are just trying to cause problems. By the way, why did you give it up so soon? Make him work for it and he'll appreciate it more when he gets it. Remember the best thing about Christmas is the rush you get when it comes to discovering what you've gotten. After you unwrap the presents, the mood wanes. Be in peace.
2006-07-26 17:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Raye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was a waste of time telling her. She'll find out on her own that he's not all that he's cracked up to be. She'll wish then she would of believed you when you told her. Oh well, sometimes people have to learn things the hard way.
2006-07-26 17:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you told her, you are very honest to do a thing like that. It was was wrong to to sleep with your not single ex. But even if the gf didnt believe, atleast you did the right thing. Let her figure that out on her own.
2006-07-26 17:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a waste of time is you sleeping with a guy who cheated with YOU on another person! What makes you think he won't do that to you?
2006-07-26 17:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Major waste of time.. what were u trying to do... ???
the guys seems like a jerk anyway...and im sure his old/new gf knows that..... just let them be....... and get a life....
2006-07-26 17:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by blacktears2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you havent been with him long enough to claim hes yours and why are you givin it up so easily. Girl you should respect yourself more. Hes still in love with his ex you were just back up. sorry to say but the truth hurts
2006-07-26 17:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by just another hot mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think its a waste of time. But now it seems like you're trying to ruin their relationship
2006-07-26 17:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by skris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was a waste of your time. What were you trying to accomplish? Keep your mouth shut and there won't be any drama.
2006-07-26 17:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋