If you are the complete package that you claim then you likely intimidate available men, whilst men in relationships have nothing to lose and thus feel they can approach the 'unapproachable'.
There doesn't seem to be a shortage of available guys from where I'm standing so perhaps you need to move in different circles. Perhaps the places where you regularly meet men are places that appeal to guys in relationships or the women who are dating them.
Outside of those possibilities it could be that you are setting your sites too high or seeking the wrong qualities in a guy. Handsome, charming men often bounce from one relationship to another by hooking up with someone new before ending the last relationship. It could be that you're only attracted to these Casanova types, and if that's the case you've got a rather serious problem on your hands. Even if you catch a playboy like that while he's not seeing anyone you can't count on the fact that he won't suddenly grow tired of you and you'll end up the one whose boyfriend is stolen.
2006-07-26 10:14:52
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answered by du_robot 2
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First thing to think about is dropping the belief that only married and taken guys want you. There's a great chance that if married and taken guys like you, single guys like you too. Second thing you might want to do is re-evaluate your standards in men. Maybe the only kinds of guys you're interested in are married and taken. Third thing you definitely want to do is get more assertive in the guy you're going after. His background shouldn't be any of your concern in the beginning, but how much the two of you get along should. Don't worry about your image either. The right guy could care less about your image.
2006-07-26 17:08:36
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answered by King Matthew 2
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uhhhhh what was the question? lol. Dont let it bother you cause guys who are married come on to you. All you have to do is say no. I am sure there are plenty of men who are single who would love to take you out. You probably wont give them a second glance though. Thats usualy how it is. It not easy for single men either unless everything happens to be going great in their life its hard as hell to find a decent women.
2006-07-26 17:08:16
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answered by tfh777 1
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Maybe the guys are not happy in their relationships and are searching for someone better and you present yourself to them as that someone better? Would really depend on where you are looking and finding these types of guys? It could be the type of guy you are looking for. Normally the rule of thumb is the higher on the looks scale someone is the less likely you are of getting a lasting realationship. Normally you find that right person when you are not looking for that person. find out more about someone before dating them. Talk, get to know them. Lies should be an immediate warning to end things.
2006-07-26 17:18:35
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answered by thetuttrups 1
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most guys (not me) usually marry one type of woman and plan on screwing around with the other type. they are told to do this by their fathers, who were told by their fathers, and so on. the idea of this advice is don't marry a particularly beautiful woman, because she'll only make trouble for you.
the marrying type of woman is sought for her "low-maintainence" attributes, and is often described as, "easy-going, fun, low-maintainance." the fooling around type of woman is always described as "hot." many men would also say the marrying kind of woman is smarter, but i have found this is not always true.
although I am also "taken," (my girlfiend is hot, and we are never getting married, although we live together, and have for more than four years) I would like to see a photo of you, because, if i'm right, you're pretty good looking. send me an email, ok.
2006-07-26 17:13:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Not all the good guys are taken. The problem is you keep running into the creeps. If their involved leave them alone, its not worth the heartache.
Do good guys run around with a girlfriend/wife, and have a side partner to **** every now and then? No.
Good guys exist, look harder.
2006-07-26 17:14:10
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answered by Anonymous
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You must have a fantastic personality and sense of humor. Maybe you give men the feeling that you only want to be friends....Keep trying, he will be there when u least expect it. You have to be an awesome person if married and unmarried men are flirting with you.....Just chill and let Nature take it's course.
Don't try so hard....You'll do fine.
2006-07-26 17:10:10
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answered by ? 1
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Because looks can't get you everything..You have to look behind the looks. You'll find love where you least expect it, so stop thinking of how cute or how rich a guy is and look beyond the materialistic possessions.. Good luck
2006-07-26 17:08:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Men are always looking for the next best thing if they are not getting something good at home or not getting anything from thier wifes or girlfriends.
2006-07-26 17:06:57
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answered by hopeISalive 2
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obviously , it's not ALWAYS. BE REAL....
what it is , is , if you are good-looking, they don't want YOU, they want a sex, side-action partner. Don't take it personally and don;'t be flattered... if they are already attached, you are not a serious factor in their lives.
find someone who wants you for you ..
there are pretty faces on every corner.
those men just want to use you. ONCE AGAIN, DON'T BE FLATTERED !!!. they hit on all the pretty girls !! not just you!!
2006-07-26 17:04:49
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answered by Anonymous
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