Because they dont care about you anymore, because they take you for granted and use you like a doormat, so they think they can come back to you whenever they are ready? or because they dont know what they want?
Just curious, dating a guy in the last spring, who always played on and off, and I always be patient enough. hang in there, if he called me later on I answered his call, if he did not, I just live on with my life, going out with friends and dating someone else. Oneday I told him that I got a boyfriend, he became jealous and wanted to date me again. This kind of game either happens to me or my friends, this is just too common, wondering why?
2006-07-26 09:27:40 · 15 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF THEY TREAT YOU LIKE A DOORMAT, IT'S BECAUSE YOU ALLOW IT!!!!
you cannot get RESPECT, until you DEMAND RESPECT...you also attract men that youare interested in ~~ if you get LOSERS, trust me, you are attracted to LOSERS. Change YOUR PERSPECTIVE IN LIFE first and then your QUALITY of men will change. good luck
2006-07-26 09:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are looking for the wrong guy to me. Next time a guy asks you out that you are reluctant to go out with (seems boring or quiet or some such thing), think about that guy. It may be what you see as boring may be part of a personality less likely to cheat on you or treat you wrong (especially if he doesn't get that many dates, he knows how to keep them when he does get them).
2006-07-26 16:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are just as complicated as women. A woman will think with her mind and heart but a man will think with something totally different. Is it any wonder they screw up so much. Besides you should never ever let a man walk all over you. Stand up for yourself, don't settle for second best when you can have the best.
2006-07-26 16:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by dsd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mostly because you taught him to treat you that way...
Look, you're dealing with a boy, not a man. Men are not jerks, you just found yourself attracted to one.
Sounds like you and your friends need to learn to a thing or two about men.
2006-07-26 16:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because that is the type of guy you like. Who are you trying to fool. Would you even consider dating a guy that would be polite and nice?
Girls don't like "Nice guys" you have no one but yourselves to blame. That is why most guys stop being nice guys and become what you girls really want.
2006-07-26 16:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Odie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blah, blah, blah,I couldn't even get through the complete question.Does the sniveling ever stop? You are what made us this way.this is what attracted you.Did you ever hear a women say how nice their ex-boyfriend was? of coarse not, we are jerks.That's why you like us.
2006-07-26 16:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is men out there for every woman be patient when you do get the right one trust me you won;'t know how to act.
2006-07-26 16:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its realy not a male female issue, its you that is weak, be strong and more confident in yourself and forget people that treat you like that, they wouldnt call back if they were'nt getting a reaction
2006-07-26 17:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called wanting what you can't have. What is there to be gained from something you've already obtained? Then again, what if you suddenly lose something in your posession already? Wouldn't you want to get it back?
It's human nature.
2006-07-26 16:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men have it in their nature to want to be in control of as many things as possible.
2006-07-26 16:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by catmanbigwil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋