how do i deal with a mother who is too over protective and has no intention to change.i'm 15 and i cant talk to my mother about anything personal and she doest trust me and doesnt all me to go anywhere with out my little sister,brother,father or her. she says when i'm 18 or when i begin living on my own i can do watever i want. i think thats unfair and it sucks!
2006-07-26 09:22:19 · 10 answers · asked by ~~SUGAR*LIPS~~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
informa i have tried most if not all of those things and her heart just remainds hard as a rock. my dad is very little help.
2006-07-26 09:43:04 · update #1
informa i have tried most if not all of those things and her heart just remainds hard as a rock. my dad is very little help.
2006-07-26 09:45:25 · update #2
Well I was in similar situation when i was young and that age before. Well do you bring home good grades? Do you clean or do chores around the house? I guess i am saying, kiss up to her and when you do a chore together ie...washing dishes, laundry, etc ask her whatever personal question it is, but do the small ones first to see her reaction. if she's pleasant about it, then another time ask her more in depth questions that are more serious to your concern. If you cant go anywhere without your lil brother that's a problem, cuz that is just plain annoying, but then again at 15 all you can go is to museums, mall, movies, bowling and pool halls. It's understandalbe cuz u want to bond w/ your friends and b on your own and learn and grow. Try and ask your mom if he can stay home and you u can go out w/ your friends. Then again i am not sure if your mom even knows your friends. You need your mom to be involved in every aspect of your life in order for her to trust you. Let her know what's going on in school , tell her about your friend(s), etc. Talk to her openly and I am sure she will be more loose w/ you. Invite your friends over for a sleepover or just to watch a movie together w/ her so she can get an idea of how they really are. Good luck w/ that and take care. 10pts please! =)
2006-07-26 09:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Informer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of route i'm protective over my relations! pretty my mom and my youthful brother. My mom delivered me into this international and he or she's the single which i visit even as i favor to be comforted. She is not only my mom, yet my perfect pal. My little brother is my purely sibling and that i respect him a lot. He continually makes me snigger and without him, i'd be no longer some thing. If all and sundry messes with him, i will mess decrease back. So convinced, i'm protective. even with the very incontrovertible certainty that i'm youthful, watch over them. This changed into an fantastically good question that fairly made me imagine about how a lot a care about them :) peace <3
2016-11-26 01:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya it sucks but you are living in her house so she makes the rules. Have you tried buttering up your dad to see if he could make the situation a bit easier by talking to your mom or mabey he might let you do something behind your moms back. You could also try asking her for chances to prove that you can be trusted like babysitting or other resposbilities around the house. If she says no mabey you need to point out to her that she cant trust you unless she gives you a chance. Have you thought about a part time job to prove that your resbonsible alot of parents go for that one. Other than that you might just have to waite till your eighteen and then start living life. Dont rebel it dosnt work trust me i did that and it got me into a whole heap of trouble.
Good luck
2006-07-26 09:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by happyvitale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun this is not what u want 2 hear right now but its the truth ur mom is only doing whats right trust me there is 2 much out there that u do not need 2 deal with right now I know u think ur ready but u r not.
once u get older u r gonna thank her 4 being the way she was with u. just remember 18 is not that far away ur going on 16 so u only have 2 more years n then u can do whatever u want.
2006-07-26 09:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll thank her one day for her concern. Maybe she made some mistakes when she was your age, and just doesn't want the same thing to happen to you. Your wellbeing is all she cares about at this time. Ask her what exactly is she worried about, what is her biggest fear, it will break the ice and maybe she will start to be open with you. Also tell her you need someone to talk to and ask her who should you go to. If you open her eyes she'll want to be that person you come to when you have questions.
2006-07-26 09:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by bopbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what types of things you are trying to do. Every 15 year old thinks their parents are over-protective but only a fraction probably are. Good Luck and although being over-protective isn't necessarily right it's because she loves you and may not know any better. Parents aren't perfect. We just expect them to be and get disappointed when we find that they're not.
2006-07-26 09:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from a mothers point of view,she will gradually let you do more of the things you want. just give it time.I to am a protective mother and my son will be turning 18. yeah when he was 15 it was diff rent, but as you get older thing will change and you will have more freedom. Remember she loves you and she is just worried about you.
2006-07-26 09:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Littlemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her..not like a child don't have an attitude and act like you have some brains...be respectful and honest with her ...tell her how you feel and see what she says also you have to show her that you are grown up enough to handle doing things without a family member...keep your grades up...do your chores...and use your head when making decisions
2006-07-26 09:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it is not to be rude but just toughen up and sppeak ur mind and really convince her to the most fairest limits u can go to wih her
2006-07-26 09:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not unfair or anything she just care about u too much
2006-07-26 09:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by Ibrar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋