im 13 an my mom treats me lik a baby shes always checking up on me an she even tucks me in bed at nite?

Question

she wakes me up in the mornin she never lets me go anyplac by myself its real embarrsing its real wierd caus shes yung herself for a mom shes only 29 an shes real prety lik now im stuck at home wile shes working an my boyfrend isnt her today my mom liks him an whan hes here we go places togeter lik the beach or the libary im gay an she doesnt mind that he an i go to the sam schol

Answer 1

13yr, you are not go places by yourself anyways, she is responsible for your actions good or bad, and she dont want to get a phone call saying you are somewhere where you are not suppose to be.
while home, why not do a load of wash, vaccuum, clean dishes, make dinner. help your mom out while she is at work. you are old enough to help her. your parents are suppose to embarrass you at 13yr. so, your mom was 16yr when she had you. dont that mean anything to you. why she is doing this, she dont want you do what she did, she made a wrong choice but she is learning what to do as the years go by. give your mom a break, she was only 16yr when she had you!!!!

Answer 2

Perhaps you need to show her that you are mature. Offer to do some extra chores. Do your current chores without being asked or reminded. Ask if you can get a part-time job babysitting, raking neighbor's leaves, or something like that. Study and get good grades. These things will help your mother to see you as a young lady and not a baby.

I'm not trying to be mean, but your grammar and spelling are atrocious for a 13-year-old. I think your mother may have reasons to believe that you are not mature enough to be treated like a teenager. You have to prove to her that you are mature. Your age is irrelevant.

Answer 3

If your mum's only 29, then that puts her at 16 when she had you, right? I'd say she's just being protective and loves you. Like you said, it wasn't that long ago that she was your age, so she knows exactly what it's like to be 13.

It sounds like she's a pretty cool mum. If she's accepted your sexuality and allows you to have your boyfriend at the house when she's not home, it sounds like she trusts you and respects you. It's just love mate. Be glad of it, it could be worse. She could be not paying any attention to you at all.

Answer 4

You guys (ppl answering) gotta be kidding me!

"My condolences, ur gay.." ?!?
"your 13, how can you know your gay?"

what is wrong with you guys? I thought people finally realized a homosexual is like any other person. Its not a bad thing either! wow you people are shallow minded!


* now as for your problem, did u talk to her? tell her your grown up, and you don't like being treated like a kid, and it kinda embarrasses you. but the part where she wakes you up, its better then an alarm. Mom's keep nagging us kids till we get up and not be late for school...good luck

Answer 5

You are thirteen years old. You should feel lucky you have a mother that cares for you soo much.

Answer 6

GAY! you sick-o, course your mom is where ever you are, because she knows you make bad choices, like being gay!

Answer 7

So your mom cares about you and is okay with your status and lets you be with your friends and...what exactly is your problem?

Answer 8

My condolences for your being gay.

But be thankful you have a mom that gives a crap. Many don't.

Answer 9

Mabey ou should talk to her. My mom listens, why cant yours? Good luck.

Answer 10

well u should ask her too stop nicely tell her that ur not a baby any more ur a teenager