ok i have this problem......ok i really like this guy he isssssss super sweet hes like no other guy i have known...i like him i'm his best freind he is mine...but one problem he has a gf?? wut should i do should i tell him how i feel???????
help me
2006-07-26 09:10:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you want to be careful if you r best friends and he if not sexually attracted to you might scare him off and loose a friend. but on the other hand he might really like you and like that and he don't know how you feel it's kinda of a toss up. i would playfully flirt with him and see how he responds. good luck
2006-07-26 09:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a gf then i don`t think u should tell him.
now if he really cares about her he won`t drop her 4 u or anyone else. if he would drop her 4 u,he would drop YOU 4 someone else. ya get me?and y should u tell him if he`s already taken?
(no offence.)
but if you`ve never seen her and do`nt have proof he has a gf then he could be making that up cuz ..
1) he may not like u but just wants u 2 like him.
2) he doesn`t like u and wants u 2 back off
0r 3) he likes u and doesn`t want u2 know.
and of course he could really ahve a gf even w/out definate proof.
sorry if i was harsh and i hope i helped..:)
2006-07-26 16:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Spoken For 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. If you're his best friend, respect that. Don't go mess up his mind by telling him how you feel. And besides you might lose a friend with him if you tell him. If he didn't have a girlfriend that would be a different situation.
Sorry.
2006-07-26 16:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ought to put the brakes on your feelings & go barking up some other tree.
Put yourself in the GF's place - how would you like it if your man's "best friend" was coming on to your man?!
It is totally not cool from any angle.
2006-07-26 16:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...don't tell him. It could potentially ruin your friendship with him. Wait until he doesn't have a g/f then bring up the fact that you have feelings for him.
Would you want your b/f best friend interfering with your relationship? Probably not.
2006-07-26 16:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him your feelings but...don't expect anything to change right away...he might feel the same way as you feel for him but he's afraid of what it might do to your guys' friendship...
I hope that helps a bit
: ~ D
Signed,
Riley's Girl
2006-07-26 16:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything you can do unless your willing to risk your friendship and break their relationship. But if he seems like he likes you more, ask him cause he's your friend and you'll get an honest answer...
2006-07-26 16:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOoooooooooooooooooo! Don't tell him he has a g/f! But you should definately flirt with him but don't make it that obvious .Act nice and sweet in front of him.
2006-07-26 16:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first while ur on the phone with him just ask him how his relationship is with his current girlfriend, ask him if he is really serious about her, and if he isnt, tell him how u feel about him
but if he is happy dont say anything it could ruin ur friendship with him
2006-07-26 16:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes why not if you really like this guy then try getting him to go on a date with you. maybe u are sweeter than his gf.
2006-07-26 16:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋