The call in question was a solicitor for apartments. You know the type, rent here, save $100.
2006-07-26 09:05:50 · 36 answers · asked by contra_z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he went through my cell phone and started interrogating me then yes i would be mad. regardless of what you do or dont have to hide, as long as you pay your bill then you are the only one whose business it is to know what numbers are on there. he has to be able to trust you, cant blame him for trying if he doesnt trust you, but its still wrong to do and u should make it clear that its an insult to you when he goes through your phone looking for mischivious numbers.
2006-07-26 09:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by not a clue what to do 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No...it's normal that your bf would be curious. You just can't be afraid to let him see that you're loyal. I would approach this situation with communication - it's the best bet. Talk to him, tell him it bothers you that he doesn't trust you enough that he has to go looking for your cell phone, and it hurts you...if he's a good bf, he will understand and not go snooping around anymore. And another good point is to go ahead and show him things so he's NOT suspicious. Like, "Hey, look I have this number for this solicitor for apartments. He can save me $100." Then your bf wouldn't be questioning it later because you already took the initiative to tell him.
2006-07-26 09:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by plcarnrike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be mad. Because cell phones are like a private diary. That is why you don't leave the laying around and you put a private lock on them. Because boyfriends/girlfriend, husbands and wives do check the phones.
2006-07-26 09:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time getting mad. Its better that you learn he has a trust issue now instead of 6 years from now. He had no right to go through your phone
2006-07-26 09:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by summertime_cutie05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be angry if I had a girlfriend do that. My wife and I have been married eleven years, dated for four years before that, and I have no clue who she calls or when and don't feel any need to know because I trust her. She has never, in all our time together, done anything to make me suspicious of her behavior. May God bless and keep you.
2006-07-26 09:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by blowry007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so gay! My ex went through my phone and DELETED every guy I had in there including my GAY bestfriend. How retarted is that?!? Let him know that he should trust you enough to not go through your stuff. You probably didnt have a problem at the time right? It wasnt until he was asking you stupid SH*T that you got kinda upset? That is really retarted though
2006-07-26 09:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah he must have low confidence or something that he has to be jealous of some #s in the phone-or in the past he has been hurt so he needs to get over that and know himself before he can truely know others.are you not spending as much time as you used to with him??? has alot changed within the 6 months??
2006-07-26 09:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by asf153 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily - - but ask him how he'd feel if you did the same thing! Or went through his drawers or his emails or his computer history. It IS an invasion of privacy of sorts, but if you've nothing to hide..... And if he doesn't believe you about who's number it is, tell him to call it himself; that would settle any problems, no?
2006-07-26 09:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't get mad. Cause I don't have anything to hide. But your boyfriend i think has trust issues. You should ask yourself why. Did you do anything that made him like that? Or is he the one who's doing something?!!
2006-07-26 09:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter which call it was in question to. The fact that he's asking you to explain this phone number and that one, shows his lack of trust. If you allow(ed) him to do this one, be prepared for he will become more controlling.
2006-07-26 09:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by Minina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋