My fiancee is always saying that she can picture her future with me, but than is taking me for granted. We talked today discussing all of the problems, but it seems to me that she has yet to want to face reality and yet to want to accept that you truly can not have everything in life, that life is about compromise. It is almost as if her mind has not truly developed with the proper maturity, or maybe she is living in a complete fantasy land. What can i do???? I need advice and help on how to deal with this, and change this as necessary. How can i get her to love me and think of "us" instead of thinking constantly of herself? I already have been very understanding, and i constantly show her how much i love her and appreciate her, but i do not know what to do. What can i do????
2006-07-26 08:59:33 · 1 answers · asked by pilotmanitalia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with her she completely disconnected with reality think of what your kids would be like. she needs to grow up before she can truly love and appreciate you
2006-07-26 09:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋