is sex when the guys is horny mainly for pleasure? or for love?
when it was the first time it just happened..and it was for love...
the second time he was horny.... so was it for pleasure? b/c its been on my mind since last night, and i TOTALLY regret doing it.....he even said,"i totally wanted to do this 2night" i said"y?" he said "b/c i am as horny as can b" i said"y?" he said " i dont know"
im planning to talk to him about it........but the things that sucks is, after it was over hes like I love you soo much... we it b/c i let him do that to me???
hes probably gonna be like"im sorry"
but its done....
yeah i posted that like 1 hour ago..... i had some great answers... but i am still upset and he hasnt even called yet. should i call him to talk to him about it?should i wait till he calls to ask if im ok cause i havent called him? what should i do. i am so sad...
2006-07-26 08:56:44 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the sounds of things neither of you are emotionally ready for a sexual relationship. Sex complicates everything, along with many health risks. Are you ready to risk your life for sex? Are you ready and capable (both financially and emotionally) of motherhood - raising a child? If you answered no to any of the above, sex should not be a part of your life yet.
2006-07-26 09:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by ~Untold Wisdom~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, love and sex can correspond with one another. Look, human beings have animal instincts. When we're hungry we crave food until we're satisfied. Well, sex is a drive that we crave at times until we're satisfied also. What makes us different from most animals is that we're advanced enough to believe in trying to uphold monogomous relationships. Most of us believe in love. For example, I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend. I love her to death. I mean, there's so much about her that I enjoy. A part of that, yes, is her body. She's sexy and attractive to me. Men are attracted to what they see first, hear second. It's a scientific fact. Of course then, I'm going to be horny during intimate times with her. I want to share my body with hers and only hers, because one, I love and respect her. Two, I was horny and got pleasure from making love with her. It just depends on the situation. I take it that your in a relationship with this guy, so I'm sure he's committed towards you. He is though, like everyone else. He's going to be horny at times. I hope though, that he saves it for you and only you during your relationship. Some people don't. That's where love is not an issue and lust is.
2006-07-26 16:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by TheRealHitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't make a purse out of a sow's ear. If you are a sensitive person in need of a sensitive person, I don't think you've got him. There are some things that talking won't help. Talking does not magically turn a person into something that they are not. A pig will always be a pig.
2006-07-26 16:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Candidus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him. he may freak out if he thinks you are freaking out about it. it can't be undone now, so just try to relax and have fun with him next time you are together
2006-07-26 16:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by roxxygrrl13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
horny
2006-07-26 15:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by bicheeeened30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. better luck next time. be careful and have safe sex.
2006-07-26 16:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-07-26 16:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋