There is this guy that I met over the internet (actually from here) and he thinks he loves me and vice versa. is this possibly and if so I don't think i'll work. For one thing he lives in NY and i live in AL. We decided to date other ppl but we still love each other and call each other pet names and all that adorable stuff. Are these feelings real or artificial? Is this healthy? Please analyze my situation and HELP!
2006-07-26 08:50:43 · 24 answers · asked by Life Is Great 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible that you love the person you think that he hi but you really dont know someone until you have a relationship with him on a face to face level. I sure that these feeling are real in someway but mostly artificial. It isn't very healthy to become so close to someone whom you have never met and have never really spent any "real" time with. You becoming so attached to a person so quickly without even knowing them on a real human basis show that you are a very naive person and that you need to make your self strong and not become so attached to thing so quickly because they will cause you problems later on and they could get you hurt so please remove yourself from this situation and get out there and try meeting new people and become a little more protective over yourself and your feelings.
2006-07-26 08:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by DixieDarlin939 2 · 11⤊ 2⤋
Honestly, I don't think it's reality. Sorry, but I had to find out the hard way that people are not the same on the computer as they are in person. You don't really know how you will feel about that person until you know if you have chemistry or not, and that will come around when you meet face to face. A lot of people that I know have not had any luck dating and meeting people online. Just be careful, and allow yourself to date real people. Sitting behind a computer is not dating, it's communicating, and words are only that, just words.
2006-07-26 15:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you're asking here, I would honestly say that its artificial and that it is very unhealthy...
Depending on how long you've known each other, love usually comes into the picture between 1-3 months.
Maybe even longer depending on how much time you spend together. It may be nothing more than a crush, a strong one but one none the less a crush...
Just take it for what it is and don't take it too seriously.
2006-07-26 15:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it how can someone even come up with feelings for someone they've never met all the bad you here about the internet and ppl still fall for this stuff either your young or not all there in the mind I'm hoping just young
fall in love with someone actually around you GEEZ
2006-07-26 15:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same kind of relation with a guy who lives in other country. But the distance made us fall out of love and now we are just friends. It may be real or it may be artificial...Only time will decide.
2006-07-26 15:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by me-sama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes u can fall in love and thats sad how u think u cant be cuz so far away. i know its hard but if u guys talk and call each other alot then why couldnt it work.whats wierd is u guys both think the same so u decided to date other people.if hu guys loved each other u would want that person with another guy.so they could be real and not but u should both now deep inside if u like each other.good luck
2006-07-26 15:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feelings can be real, who says their should be a cap on how fast u can fall in love. The fact of the matter is, it takes time to truly love some one. I truly think you guys are at y'all beginning stage, with all of the puppy mane calling. That is cute.
now is it healthy? the question is can u handle a long distant relationship? I think for anybody to have a healthy relationship they have to see each other on a daily bases. they have to touch each other
2006-07-26 16:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by raheeme i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, either make it official and be dating each other, or stop. It isnt healthy to "love" this guy and date other people. Do you guys talk on the phone and write letters and stuff like that? One of my good friends actually met his wife via the internet, but they didnt stay in different places. He visited her and she visited him and he eventually moved to where she is. If you stay long distance it wont work....
2006-07-26 15:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most online relationships it's all fantasy. Have fun with it, but don't take it too seriously. At very least you've made a new friend. Keep dating real life and keep the online thing in perspective. You can't love someone you've never met 3D.
2006-07-26 15:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is better in the beginning....but you two really don't know each other. So there is a hint of mystery and intrigue that you both seem to love. So it is best that you let that go (serious relationship thing) and be friends and cut all the foolishness cause really .....you two are fooling yourselves. Unless one of you are up to moving soon.........
2006-07-26 15:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Atypical Marvel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋