Does interacial dating bother you? I just want honest answers about how you feel. No t just what is right to say. Black, white asian, hispanic everybody.
This came about from another question a man posted earlier about why black women have such a problem with white women dating black men. I want honest answers not just about the black and white but all races, creeds, and colors.
If you want to see the other question just check my profile.
2006-07-26 08:41:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel that some people don't understand that race goes way beyond skin color. I think people need to also think about the cultural difference that different nationalities have. Does anyone ever think of that in regards to race?
2006-07-26 09:37:35 · update #1
Yes, it does bother me. Not to the point I am going to do anything about it because in the big picture it really doesn't effect me. Honestly, I want my grandkids to be the same as me.
Plus take into account that kids are very cruel and your talking about what the children are going to have to put up with growing up. Dispite of what is said publically there are still strong feelings about interacial couples and it is taught from parent to child. As one guy I know said "Lions and tigers are cats, but they don't mix." You know his kids are learning that as well and society can't stop it.
I have found by talking with several people that it isn't just one race that feels this way, it is pretty much all of them to some extent or other. Because of todays PC environment you don't hear about it much, but it is still there.
2006-07-26 09:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm Mexican and I would not date outside my race. Like a good Latino, I love women and their race is the last thing that I notice. However, I cannot get past the cultural differences that divide us. That is why if I am looking for a fling... it doesn't matter what race they are. But for me to settle down it would have to be someone from my own race.
However, if people are better than me and are able to put those cultural differences aside... then more power to them. I have nothing against interacial dating.
2006-07-26 09:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Eric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interracial dating doesn't bother me, just like homosexual relationships don't bother me. The reason being because the relationships do not Involve me or effect me, therefore I really have no say. I think the most important thing is that he couples are happy and healthy.
I am a Caucasian female and if my brother dated or married an Asian or African American or Spanish girl the only thing that matters is if they where happy with each other.
People just have nothing going on in their lives so they feel like they need to intrude on others.
2006-07-26 08:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by penwater1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't have a problem with interracial dating, but I've found that society at large tends to make an issue out of it...I am Chinese and the guy I've just begun seeing is white, if we keep seeing each other he will be taking a lot of **** for it from his Asian friends (who'll peg him as an Asiaphile) and from his white friends (who will think he considers himself too good for white girls). I've noticed that people of a person's same race get offended when they date outside their race...it's like some genetic clique or something.
2006-07-26 08:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by silver11016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be a problem with interacial dating, however its going to be something you can't overcome with ease as people will always feel the need to not only judge you but also to tell you exactly what they think.
2006-07-26 08:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am white, I have been in 4 long term relationships, and a few short term ones... none of them with white girls.
I just don't find white skin attractive. Now, does that make *me* racist? Maybe I should put that up as a question...
2006-07-26 08:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Song2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honest truth is I dont want anyone in my family dating another race and wouldn't want to marry into a family that had any interracial marriages either.
2006-07-26 08:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 01:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that interacial dating is for certain kinds of people. people who weren't raised with a strong connection to their own religion and/or heritage. i know that for me, since i was raised with a very strong connection and relationship to my background and heritage, i could never date someone who was black or hispanic. but it really depends on the person, themselves.
2006-07-26 08:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, survival is the goal of all creatures...
If we weren't meant to mix things up, we would not be able to breed with one another...
It's a skin color... would you not date someone after they got a tan?
Love is love... seriously.... I don't think we need to label ourselves as anything other than people....
2006-07-26 08:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋