Okay there is this guy i really like but i dont know if he likes me, let alone if he even knows me. what should i do
2006-07-26 08:32:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been in that situation many times.
It's best not to look too desperate, no matter how much you want to. I mean, if he turns out liking you, he's gonna show it in more ways than one.
Instead, flirt with him (see source). Be natural, look nice around him, ask him questions, compliment him (not too much though), etc. And be very confident about yourself. If you feel it inside, you'll look like that on the outside.
Give it time. THEN consider asking him out, casually, and don't make it sound like a big deal--that's important. If he says no, just shrug it off and sound like you were going with your friends, if he says yes, then YAY.
Good luck!
2006-07-26 08:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was having the same exact problem about a week ago. He goes to my church and I emailed him and was kind of flirting and after about 20 emails or so, I finally just came out and said it. suprisingly, he felt the same way. You should try hanging out with him more so he knows who you are. AFterwards, you should drop hints about how you feel and who knows? He may feel the same way and not think that you even notice him. You will never know what COULD have happend if you dont shoot for it.
2006-07-26 15:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him and ask him if he feels the same way about you as you do him
maybe you'll take into considering that he likes or not this may seem like a goofy romance novel but just call it sentimental advice!
2006-07-26 15:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Boy, You're My Lucky Star<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well become good friends with him forst, good realtions come from good friendship, ( dont rush anything and dont try to impress him be urself ) after awhile just tell him everything u like about him and just be like i wanna be more than friends
2006-07-26 15:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i usally do is talk to the guy that i like best friend.but try not to get to close with his friend.but then again wait until he notices you and if he is that BLIND that he dose not notice you then move on!!!!This goes with you: " WHAT DO U DO WHEN YOU ARE SITTING BY THE GUY YOU LIKE KNOWING THAT U CAN'T HAVE HIM"??good luck
2006-07-26 15:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Unforgetable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself known. Tell him you'd like to get to know him.
2006-07-26 15:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by lambgroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think you should comfront him and introduce yourself and then first see how he is in a friendship way before you take it to the next level.
2006-07-26 15:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by theguru_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crawl out from under his bed!
2006-07-26 15:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by joe p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? let him know you then show your self and dont act just be your self
2006-07-26 15:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady if ya keep it in ya heart then he will always be in ya heart. get him to notice ya. treat him nice then give him ur best smile ever then he will be in your hands.
2006-07-26 15:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by governeverything786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋