My boyfriend dumped me almost a year ago, he was my first boyfriend. I acted like I didn't care around him, but i was crushed. A few days later, he was sour about it and began to go out with my locker partner. He told everyone that I was just a "pity-date", and that he had wasted his time on me! He was so rude and mean for about a month, then he just stopped. He dumped my locker-partner, and was normal for about 3 months. Then, suddenly at the end of the school year, he began to flirt with me again. It puzzled me and I considered being flirty w/ him again. Then, it all came to me! Recently, my breasts had gotten a cup bigger! I felt so stupid for thinking he liked me for me! Now,almost a year later, I can't get over it and I'm still boyfriend-less! Help! What am I to do?
2006-07-26 08:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by BabyAEB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's better that you find someone who has a great personality and that can share the same values that you can. The first boyfriend is always hard to move on from. Obviously, he was cough up in just the physical being. He sounds like he is all over the place. Maybe he just does not know what he wants. The best thing to do is move on.
2006-07-27 21:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by bella 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know what your talking about. i was with a guy for a year. He was the first boy i ever loved. after 9 months we were together he dumped me for one of my friends.He thought she liked him.But she didn't so that didn't work out as he wanted it to.My mom told me don't go back to him Because he really broke my heart...the break up was really bad.we stopped talking and everything. Then about 2 months later we got back together.Then about 1 month later he dumped me again in march. Since march we stopped talking to each other. Into later June. I still LOVE hI'm and He still LOVES Me.You can never give up on someone you really love. If you have FAITH .Which I have faith.It will work.I can make it work.If you really believe and think things are going to work then go for it.But do what im doing right now.Were taking it slow. Take it step by step..If you need anymore advise. You can anyways talk to me..My email is loveromarion@yahoo.com
...sincerely, I hope my advise has you thinking,
~*Jazmine*~
2006-07-26 08:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by <3RomanticChick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u know some guys are real bastards n losers, they date girls just to 've sex.i can feel what u r going thru, but the only thing u can do is to get tht thing out of ur head n make sure u don repeat this again.don get carried away,when a guy talks swt cos guys r not very gud.....
so, forget everythin n keep going.. very soon God's gonna send ur soulmate who'll sweep u off ur feet n keep u happy forever
2006-07-26 08:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by silpa_vj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahh... the classic rebound... well, you have two options: if you want a boyfriend, then go out there and meet new people( although, this won't be a very good idea) OR you can distract yourself by going out with your friends and having fun, you'll soon realize that your not thinking about the past, you'll get over it, 'your in control of your own life' -oracle
2006-07-26 08:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first deside, is it the moment you cant get over, or the boy? If its the moment, then, just, try not to dwell on it, im sorry to say this, but its a pretty helpless problum on your part, if its the boy, talk to one of his friends, see if he really does like you! But, if its just the moment, all you can do is try. Im sorry.
2006-07-26 08:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh..this is really bad..but don't loose hope. If some betray your trust don't categorize whole world with that exprience. This world is full of nice persons. Best of Luck.
2006-07-28 01:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one hey im looking for a girlfriend email so we can talk
2006-07-26 08:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for a better guy... that guy isnt worth your time! just remember what he said about you last time he broke up... he's only in it for the looks... you can find someone better and not as superficial...
2006-07-26 08:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get another boyfriend and forget about your first and try not to think of him as much as possible
2006-07-27 01:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn arround........ find somethin' new...... come on,,, im here.........
2006-07-26 08:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by cOme_Fly_wiTh_mE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋