i have a problem............
this girl i really like....... i dont think she knows the real me........
ive been mean to her at times because of whats been going on here with me and now i think she thinks im abusive or something like that........
and i have really no way to prove her wrong right now...... and i dont know what to do........
i dont feel she really is taking me seriously at all anymore..... i can explain to her so much and still nothing.....
i dont know what to do, should i just give up and find someone else?
2006-07-26 08:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is long distance by the way so that is why i have said i really have no way to prove her wrong right now....
2006-07-26 08:53:11 · update #1
It sounds like you need to build up your trust with her. all you need to do is stick to what ever you say so you two can regain the trust.and try thinking before acting rather then just doeing out of a selfish nature.
2006-07-26 08:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by asf153 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want her in your life, I'd say give it another shot. And if explaining doesn't do it then perhaps it's better to find another person to start off fresh with. Out of every broken relationship, you will be able to take something out of it. You learn something new and hopefully you can take it with you.
2006-07-26 08:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being mean to someone happens from time to time. Just try to controll that 'anger' and continue to be yourself, if you really are a truly nice and good person, that will show through and she should catch on.
2006-07-26 08:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a girl if you want her to kno the reak you than take a break for a while and than try and strat over if that doesnt work then u just need to give up but u should never ever be mean to a girl take it from me a girl
2006-07-26 08:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Maya D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down, buddy. it's not the end . why not ask her if you can start over because you're afraid you gave off the wrong impression. just be honest with her and tell her you were weird before because you got scared and panicked. then, when you have her attention let her see what's in your heart. if she doesn't at least give you a chance then she doesn't deserve you :)
2006-07-26 08:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by melbel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety why don't you try again and see if she gets it. if she doesn't then you'll just have to wait until someone that get's 'you for you' comes along. you'll find the right girl. but maybe you need to give this one time to adapt to you and figure you out. hope it works out.
2006-07-26 08:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, i think youre doomed with this girl.
take a lesson from it though. Every action you take WILL have a consequence - good or bad.
2006-07-26 08:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Linder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like this last year, so u should just be ur self every where u go believe me it will work, be nice to women aight, n just keep it pimpin playa
2006-07-26 08:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why don't you just let her know that you haven't been yourself lately and you want to hang out a couple times.
2006-07-26 08:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, how much do u really like this girl? if she's not worth you trying a bit harder and smarter, then ya, move on.
2006-07-26 08:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by wiseonekms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋