I'm in high school, I have a boyfriend. A lot of girls at my school do sexual things with their boyfriends, and I don't know whether my boyfriend is expecting it or not and what I should do.
2006-07-26 08:16:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in high school and I have a boyfriend. A lot of girls do things with their boyfriends (some of them have sex with them, but not all of them)..like on some of the higher "bases" (like 3rd) and I don't know whether or not my boyfriend is expecting it or not.
2006-07-26 08:21:18 · update #1
DO NOT HAVE SEX BEFORE YOU ARE MARRIED. Wait, it is so worth it and the sexually transmitted diseases that are so prevalent these days is very scary. Not only that but you could have a baby out of wedlock which will make your life very hard.
2006-07-26 08:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what he expects. You should not do anything you're not 100% comfortable with or ready for, no matter what anyone else is doing. Sexual activity is too important to engage in without love and commitment.
2006-07-26 15:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what you feel is right. We are not you, we cant make up your mind for you. If you do however chose to do sexual things might i suggest using a condom? Planned Parenthood gives them out for FREE!! So No Excuses When He Says He Doesnt Have One!
2006-07-26 15:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready then dont do it trust me i no ok there is so much that comes with sex like std you can get them even from doing nothing but oral you can still get them aids is another
pregnancy comes with sex and if your not ready for a baby crying all night then wait to have sex
2006-07-26 15:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that you aren't ready to do because you will regret it. If you aren't ready then sit him down and tell him that and if he really likes you then he will respect that and wait, if not then dump him and move on because he isn't worth it. Never give up your morals for anyone.
2006-07-26 15:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he expects!But, if you do no feel ready to give that part of you up dont! Even if it means loosing him. Do not just think of what he wants think what you want too!!
2006-07-26 15:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by red_ram_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the tone of ur question t sounds liek u dont want to..my high school is the same and my gf told me in a note that she wanst like that....i took it fine that my suggestion
2006-07-26 15:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by deadbrother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to then don't...he shouldn't pressure you into doing anything you don't want to....oh, and just because other girls are doing it doesn't mean u have to. A lot of times they just tell ppl they are doing it when they really aren't
2006-07-26 15:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is probably expecting that, but it doesnt mean you have to do it. He has probably already lied to his friends about such things.....just take your time.
2006-07-26 15:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants sex, tell hi,m goodbye. You are TOO young
2006-07-26 15:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Chris G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋