i had broken up with this guy bout 6 months ago, but we still got along really well.. the thing is i haven't talked to him in about a month.. we had a fight (he asked me to help him with smth, i told him i couldn't and he told me that i don't give a damn, that i don't care about him&stuff like that) and he told me he didn't want to talk to me anymore.
i keep thinking that it was a stupid reason to lose contact with him and i'm really sorry..
i miss talking to him, i miss the way we laughed together, i miss the fact that we made eachother smile everytime we met/talked on the phone/chated, i could have told him anything.. i feel like i've lost my best friend, the only person who truly got to know me. not the "mask" that i show when i'm with my other friends (a girl who talks a lot, makes everyone laugh etc ), but the person i am when i "dare" to be silent..
should i call him even if he told me not to? or is it better to let him forget me, even if this hurts me?
2006-07-26 08:02:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell yeah, why not? You've got nothing to loose, except that "empty" feeling.
2006-07-26 08:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes in life you just have to follow your heart. Go for it...call him up. Better yet, send him a personalized card apologizing and expressing just what you said here. No, not an e-card either. Get his address, hand write a card being very open and honest about how you feel, drop it in an envelope with a photo of you smiling and write on the photo..."this is how you make me feel." Sure, he may be hurt or upset about the argument u 2 had but, he wouldn't have been so upset if he didn't care about you too. So, its time to step to the plate and show him you really do care. Let us know how it works out.
2006-07-26 15:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by oneluv66366 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call the man. If you still think of him as a best friend maybe you should approach the situation as a friend rather than a lover and see what happens. From the way it sounds you don't have anything to lose by reaching out and trying to at least salvage your friendship. Don't let fear of rejection stand in your way - you've already broken up.
2006-07-26 15:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's an important person in your life you should try calling and work things out. If he's negative when you call then move on, you did your part. There's a bunch of people out here that would love to be your friend!
2006-07-26 15:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by It's Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him and forget him. If he decided that you weren't a friend enough to forgive and forget that means he really didn't appreciate you. A good friend would have understood if you weren't able to help him and tried to find another way or even talked to you about finding alternative ways. Good Luck!
2006-07-26 15:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by ilana73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont call him him u'l regret ur entire life. Once in a lifetime u find a person with whom u r ,what u really r. In ur case its dat guy ur talking about.
If u r true when u r telling dat ..." the only person who truly got to know me"... then y r u faking dat u dont want to talk to him. He is only disappointed dat u didnt help him.
Talk it out, everything will workout fine.
2006-07-26 15:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him. ask if you can work things out. thats what I did with my bf and we apologized and went out again. Plus I read in a magazine that 98% of guys like it when a girl calls them. win/win situation.
2006-07-26 15:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Heather T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl call him if u don't u gona lose yo friend 4 a stupid reason
2006-07-26 15:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, ive been in this situation before. i called him. but 4 us...it was too wierd even seein eachother was weird. so now we dnt talk nemore. i think you should call him. he probably wants to talk to u too. hes just as afraid as you are to call.
2006-07-26 15:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CALL! He told you not too - you are broken up, you need to get on with your life.
2006-07-26 15:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
say ur sorry
i have the same person in my life and its the same story
if i lose him i wouldnt kno wut 2 do
call him and if u still have feelins for him tell him
im sure he does 2 cuz when guys like u they get pissed at u easy
2006-07-26 15:07:36 · answer #11 · answered by tinkerbell_roxxxxxxxxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋