2006-07-26 07:59:58 · 6 answers · asked by governeverything786 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No matter how much parents try, they cannot give each chile enough time or fair treatment. Generally it is seen that in every family of 2 or more kids parents tend to favor one child more than the other though it may happen inadvertently too. And when that happens the child being neglected feels it and takes it to heart. Its a difficult thing to do, and most parents fail at it. I believe there is no particular way of giving each child his fair deal. One may say that he or she has given their children all that they wanted but time tells them where they have slipped up.
2006-07-26 08:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a Dad of 3, the best way I found to treat them fairly was to give each one what "they" needed. I spent time with each one individually, and then together as a group. At "back to school" time, I took each one shopping as an individual, to let that one pick out what he, or she, wanted. Just relax, and love them. They are going to be well-adjusted kids beacuse they KNOW you love them.
2006-07-26 08:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having three, five and under (and all planned), it is a struggle to balance all three at once. I feel that since I am staying at home with them that I am giving them all I can. I do my best to balance daily life, chores and spending time with the kids. It is definitely hard. But I know by having them close together they will have a stronger bond and more support when they are grown.
2006-07-26 08:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is never too lil.its endless.and has got enough for all.but anyways for each their own.and what they want and ask.when trying to be fair with kids.,u must assess their "needs"and age.i've brought up 4 kids now aged between:22/21/16 and 10.and i give to each other.what they need and deserve.not what they WANT.i mean.regard to care and material things,like money.offcourse.
2006-07-27 03:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by brasil_mulher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with all of them but also spend alone time with each of them. For example, have you and your kids all go out for ice cream sometimes but also take them to do separate things with you. If your daughter likes to cook, make cookies with her. If your son likes play sports, go outside and play catch with him. Just try to split your time between them as best as possible.
2006-07-26 08:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time alone with each one, make a different day thier day to go shopping with them and take them to mcdonnalds or whatever. take one over to grandmas or whoevers house and take the other one out. take them both to see a movie. give them the same punishment for doing the same naughty thing.
2006-07-26 08:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋