Why do black women get so angry at balck men dating white women?

Answer 1

It's not anger but disappointment. It has nothing to do with being racist. It just sometimes you get tired of being looked over and sometimes the white chic that they choose is not all that. Because if you are a black woman and date a white man believe me, black men will have something negative to say about it. If you choose someone from another race, just let it be that you find her attractive and not make it a race thing. That's all we ask. So many times black men tear us down so much when they go outside the race. I would rather hear a black man dating a white woman because he truly finds her attractive and is in love with her and not because she is more of a doormat. I believe a lot of us feel that way. Thanks.

Answer 2

Ah..ignorance is bliss. So many sheltered people. I guess they never heard of Jim Crow either. Good thing many of us fought the good fight against it for them.

I have heard this. And I extrapolate from the preponderance of the evidence, that certain Black women dislike if for different reasons.

The pool of what is considered acceptable Black men is shrinking. With Black on Black crime taking many young men out, and those who survive the drive by going to prison. There are not many non-ganstas left for the masses of Black sistas.

That Maddison Av place Caucasian women higher on the beauty scale than African American women in general. And the Black man choosing these women is a de facto thumbs up, that his status would be greater enhanced.

The "shared perception" thing. that white women and Black men have both suffered discrimination under white America, be it in different forms.

Some ARE just simple racist.

Some may seem like racist but are proud semi-seperatist. the feel that all the blending will further erode the race in a classic scense that you will technically have a bunch of people who look Black but are actually not even 75% Black.

that being stepped over by Black men is an indictment to their beauty with in the African American community.

Some reasons overlap. Others are stand alone. But with some African American women it is there, and it is real. Even when people didn't want to believe the World was round, it still was.

Answer 3

Maybe it is seen as a betrayal against an entire race. Which is a sensitive issue for African Americans especially, because they have had to endure so much at the hands of Caucasians. When a black woman sees a black man with a white woman, perhaps she thinks that only 150 years ago the white woman's ancestors would have kept the black man as a slave and seen him as nothing more then expendable property. And now when a black man expresses his love for a white woman, black women are offended because they feel that he has turned his back on the hardships endured because of white people. In addition a little jealousy can always play a role.

Answer 4

Same reason that white guys get pissed when black guys date white girls. Because deep down inside everybody, they all feel weird when faced with something they don't fully understand and need answers they're afraid to ask. Either that or they're just jealous because the other person won't date them, but they'll date someone of a different color? That's probably just racism I'd say, but I may be wrong.
I guess it helps if you also already have some pent up angst towards that race of people for whatever reason. I think gay guys could date gay guys, black people could date white people, white people could date black people and asians could date everybody. Who cares what others think or feel about one person dating another. Care about that person and everyone else will become insignificant. Oh, also, an average black man's pencil is much larger than a white guy's. However, I haven't ever gotten any complaints so I could care less.

~Just My 0.02

Answer 5

its a black thing

you would not understand.

it deals with socioeconomic relations as it pertains to the progress of the black male and black female.


so to answer your question.
It is generally due to the Social Level of the individuals in question.

example:

In the ghetto a white girl and black boy is okay amongst those IN that ghetto.

However A ghetto boy and a upstanding White Girl is taboo as he is selling out(moving up)

It is strange to say the least as Black women are identical to black men in many regards however it is this likeness that causes friction

The Black male wishes to be King and Ruler
The Black female wishes to be Queen and Ruler

we all know that there can only be one(highlander,LOL)

So, this causes the division. The stereotypes presented by America Make Black men shy away form Black women and vice versa.

Since a Black male can be KING with other women
and the Black female can be Queen with other men

they prefer to meet under the cover of darkness while the significant other is oblivious.

So in general Black Males and Females have bomb a$$ sex together but cannot live or co habitate if they come from the aforementioned socioeconomic backgrounds

Answer 6

We black women may get so angry when black men date white women because there is already a severe shortage of eligible, promising black and when we see that one of the "decent" ones has chosen our white counterpart, we feel cheated. Black women who work hard and try to live respectable lives desperately seek a black man with similar goals and values but when he chooses a white woman, it's as if he is saying that no matter how good we are as black women, we'll never be good enough. Black women who want to date within their race often face disrespect, infidelity, criminal activity, and horizontal hostility between each other. The white woman invading "our territory" is just another slap in our face. We are single mothers, breadwinners, wives, Christians, entertainers, mediators, etc. and we do sometimes get in a huff when we witness a black man sharing his loving with a white woman. That loving should have gone into strengthening our Black community. All of us do not fault the white woman. Neither do we hold hatred in our hearts, but honestly we just want our own black man to be have and to hold and to be fruitful with. This is just my opinion--and I'm just keeping it real.

Answer 7

Not all black women get angry like this- only the racist ones. It would be the same as a white woman getting angry that a white man is dating a black woman. Who really cares, though?

Answer 8

Many white men do not want to have mixed kids, and that means that there men are being taken. I used to get mad about the white woman doing it, but I realized most that did that were trash with drug problems, you know hookers.

On a related question why do African Americans womens chest move differently than white womans chest during love making? Seriosly there is a different sort of movement I have always wanted to know maybe this is the correct forum.

Answer 9

Personally I don't care who dates who but I think that it's a slam against black women when they see black men dating white woman also black women feel like why don't you date your own color, also black women don't want it thrown in their face like some couples who strut around and do. Plus black women know in the end that most black men are just using these women for sex and then will leave them high and dry like they do black women. There are all kind of reasons why.

Answer 10

That question is WAY too general to be totally true. But, based on a conversation I heard recently between two black women......I think they believe that by dating white women, the black men are "betraying" their race. They were saying they didn't feel like there were enough good stable young black men to go around.